I'm I in the wrong

[Selfworth]

My partner had a go at me saying I prioritize my ex over him because I double checked if my daughter was going to her dads. he had just told me shes going tonight. Me and my daughter thought it was Monday night.so I messaged my ex to see if he was picking her up tonight or tomorrow. Not thinking anything of it...He snapped at me and said that I'm prioritizing my ex over him for not believing him. I apologised saying that I was just double checking. Am I in the wrong for double checking and not believing him. I'm so upset n confused about it.

Of course you are not wrong for checking.

He's just being a massive misogynistic turd.

You are not prioritising anyone over anyone else. Did he say "why don't you believe me" or "do you think I am lying" as well.

He said both of them to me. Don't know what to do or say . Ive apologised but he's still going on about it . I'm in the wrong for doing so . Hes also said that I'm still in love my ex otherwise I wouldn't prioritize my ex over him. Which I'm not in love with him far from.

Fuck him off op sounds like he is v maniuplative

Is this the first time something like this has come up?

How does your DP know and you don’t?

I've been ill.. found out I've got meningioma. Lost track of time . I normally have it in my calendar but forgot to update it.

Get rid of him x

Insecure twat! What a load of bullshiti. The person you are prioritising is your DD and he doesn't like it, so is twisting it.

On many occasions.

Stop apologizing for a start.
You should not accept such poor behavior - which is borderline abusive - from this person.
What value does he add to your life?
Women Who Love Too Much would be a worthwhile read for you.