Name changed for this as I don't want it linked with other posts.
Last night my oh told me that as a child, aged between 9 and 12 that on a couple of occasions his step dad was inappropriate..
The first time, his mum had gone for a bath and step dad showed him a porn video on his phone.
Then again, whilst on holiday ohs mum went to use the bathroom and step dad called oh over to him and started telling him what sexual things he had done with ohs mum including anal sex for no reason.
On another occasion oh was 12 at this point and had genital pain, told his mum who then sent step dad in to find out what was up and had to show him his penis...
He has told me that he also used to say he'd drop oh off to school because he liked to look at all the school girls and would then park up and start making comments about school girls!!
It seems to have all flooded back to him as we now have 2 children off similar ages to what he was and he has said he thinks it was really wierd behaviour because he would never dream of behaving in that way.
We are none contact with them now but I suppose I'm looking for advice on if this would be classed as sexual abuse or something else? It all just sound really innaropriate and wierd behaviour from a grown man