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At a total loss about what job I could do rant...

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MrsMaracas · 12/11/2023 21:11

I've never had much luck with employment. I started a job I LOVED in January, teaching in further education mostly from home, and the company went into administration three months later! Since then I've been freelancing but freelance tutoring is very hard work.

I have an M.A in Sociology. I am very passionate about Sociology but I've never managed to find a job related to it and scholarship has moved on hugely since I graduated (in 2008) so although I am so sad about it, I probably couldn't get something in that field now much as I'd love to.

I am a qualified counsellor but it doesn't pay much, I have some clients but tutoring and marking and all the paperwork that goes with it takes up SO much time, I couldn't take on any more. I think I want out of the counselling field altogether if I am honest, much as I love helping people.

Before the FE job in January I worked on a night MH helpline for a private company. Loved the job, but it involved every second weekend which got me down after a while, and I was bullied out of the position eventually (I wish I'd have filed for constructive dismissal but I didn't). The pay was pretty crap too (26k ish).

Before that, I was a police civilian and again, bullied out of that position. But the shifts were awful so no great loss once I'd come to terms with dealing with my MH after all the bullying.

One of my freelance contracts is ending and I am getting a bit panicky about money. I just want a job that's remote working, and pays decently. ANYTHING.
I can't afford to retrain, nor would I want to. I'm on my own with a mortgage and a dog. Life's pretty depressing. I would like a career that's fulfilling and interesting. I feel I've always had such bad luck.

Has anyone been in a similar position? Do I sound as if I might be great at what you do?

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SecondUsername4me · 12/11/2023 21:13

What about looking for a job with a national employer (hmrc, housing associations, councils etc) but in more of a People / Staff area than customer facing. Lots of these massive employers have HR roles which are focused on in house wellbeing and staff mental health.

webster1987 · 12/11/2023 21:15

Can you hybrid work or does it have to be completely home working?

Have you ever considered the probation service?

MrsMaracas · 12/11/2023 21:23

Thank you both
I looked on the probation website recently! But couldn't find anything suitable in my area. I will check again.
I have considered hybrid working, it would be tricky with my dog and I'd rather be at home but I can't be too fussy in this climate.
I've looked at HMRC and the council but I will look again, and at the other suggestions.
I really hope my next job move is forever. I'm early forties and this is not a nice position to be in at all. It's not 'just' the job, I am rather lonely and would like a relationship, a fulfilling life-but I need to sort this job situation out first.

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