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When were you a tw*t?

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vitahelp · 10/11/2023 17:24

I’m usually thoughtful and a bit of a people pleaser if anything, this extends to driving. I always give way to the point of being a pushover, always wave thanks when someone occasionally lets me go first, I’d give up a space to someone else rather than get in an argument every time.

But today for some inexplicable reason I parked like a complete twat at school. I wasn’t blocking the gates or anyone’s drive, in fact was quite far from the school but I was overlapping onto a small estate junction very slightly and a bit far from the kerb. I got out and saw it was shite parking but carried on my way hoping it would be fine. I had time to move and there were other places to go, but I didn’t. When I got back a 4x4 with 2 blokes in was struggling to turn and almost stuck, partly due to my car and a few other cars were queued behind. They didn’t say anything but were glaring. I got out of the way and that was that but I just feel guilty about it now and like I embarrassed myself. Worried other school parents will have seen and think I’m one of those selfish twats. Also don’t want my daughter to think being selfish is the norm..

Anyway whilst I’m overthinking and spiralling, is anyone else brave enough to share the time that they were a twat?!

OP posts:
funbags3 · 11/11/2023 21:46

We all cock up. I do it and it becomes like an intrusive thought that stays with me for years.😂

Cattenberg · 11/11/2023 22:01

CeciledeVolangesdeNouveau · 11/11/2023 20:46

One time at school, I made an incredibly thoughtless comment about someone’s dad. It wasn’t a nasty comment, but her dad was dead and there was no way for her to reply except by informing me of that. I was utterly mortified and spent about ten minutes apologising, which I now realise was rubbing salt onto the wound by reminding her of the fact and drawing attention to it.

I also keep kicking the cat by accident (she’s the twining-round-legs sort and I keep not turning the lights on) and I frightened her by screaming when she crept silently into the shower room the other day, I hadn’t seen her :(

I expect that many people have made the first mistake at least once. I know I have.

Colleague: ”I’m lucky that Dad moved here in 2020, so he can help with baby-sitting.”

Me: ”Is your mum still in Stevenage?”

Colleague: ”No, she’s dead”.

And as for cats, ours just don’t understand that people can’t see in the dark. So, I’ve inadvertently kicked them a few times.

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