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Horror I witnessed last night NHS

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ElisabethZott · 05/11/2023 07:47

At 3pm yesterday I took my 88 yr old mum to hospital as she had an unexpected, sudden anaphylactic reaction to one of her meds and her tongue and throat swelled up to the extent she was struggling to breathe/talk/ swallow. I drove her there because I knew the ambulance wait can be hours.
I witnessed pure absolute carnage. I worked for the wonderful NHS for 30 years and yesterday I had first hand experience of the struggles the poor staff. I have never seen such a horrendous sight of so many trollies with extremely sick and dying patients lining the corridors. I couldn’t begin to count them but there were dozens and dozens. It’s only early November, I can only say, for your own sakes, unless you have a life threatening condition, do not go to A&E.
The staff were absolutely brilliant but there’s not enough of them. The care and kindness they showed us amazing. DM didn’t join the trolley queue as her airways were compromised so we went to the observation ward where she has stayed on a trolly overnight. All A&E wards were rammed to capacity with people not even having their own bay, they were just squeezed into any available space.
Once mum had steroids and anti histamines and she stabilised ( because they were working at full speed to treat other patients) the staff simply didn’t have to time or capacity to help mum. She was offered no water, no blankets no food ( her tongue swelling had gone down a little and she hadn’t eaten all day ). You can see by the tone of my post I am no way being critical of the fantastic medical team , they were pushed to the limits. I don’t really know the point of this thread except to say I am so worried what’s going to happen when winter starts properly.

Thank you NHS but you too need looking after too because you are really broken and sick

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Jeannie88 · 06/11/2023 19:32

MrsNandortheRelentless · 05/11/2023 07:59

Similar situation except the staff were awful, neglectful and didn’t have an ounce of empathy or kindness between them.
I was embarrassed but mostly so so sad about this.
What has it come to. Long time nurse here too, I couldn’t believe it.

Also couldn’t believe that someone who needed a plaster for a cut on their finger would attend A&E then complain extremely loudly in the public waiting room that they had been waiting for 5 hours while raiding the vending machine for tea and chocolate… I kind of get why the staff were like emotionless machines when dealing with this shite.

Sadly so true, too many who live near a hospital will just walk in to a and e rather than going to pharmacy or doctors. Yes I do know this first hand, have done for many years. My last experience was a woman bringing her whole family of 6 kids in to report her child had a cough and they took up half the waiting area so those of us accompanying loved ones with serious complaints had to stand.

Lattims83 · 06/11/2023 19:32

Maelil01 · 06/11/2023 19:30

NHS f**d and no possibility of improving anytime soon. It takes around 14 years to get from lA levels to consultant and why, i ask myself often, would any very bright youngster want to do all that work to work in this NHS.

Also… it’s trolleys not trollies!

100%. Doctors and nurses are paid much better in other countries. Why anybody would stay and work in the NHS is beyond comprehension. Both of my parents were doctors in the NHS and moved to America after they finished their residencies. Best financial decision they could have made.

cccarol · 06/11/2023 19:46

yes who can we vote for none of them are any good i wish we could vote for Richard Tice he would definitely do a better job of it xx

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bakebeans · 06/11/2023 19:46

20 years in the nhs. I've seen massive rises in mental health and more and more people who fail to take responsibility for their own health, rise in alcohol abuse and drug taking.
Patients who don't attend appointments despite reminders (including phone calls may I add) and then rock up to a&e for a problem that could have been assessed had they bothered to attend. some of these people don't even work or have carer responsibilities so it's not like they need an excuse.

Fluff3 · 06/11/2023 19:47

Mummumgem · 05/11/2023 08:17

It’s simply that this country is becoming over populated and we don’t have the finances to support it. We need to close down the borders fast and toughen up to who we help.

Couldnt agree more. This country is over populated, no housing, and running out of room to build more, schools are so full that our childrens education is suffering, gps and hospitals cant cope. The roads are busy. The government needs to crack down .

SweatyyBettyy · 06/11/2023 19:50

I have joined Benedan health for this very reason. Well worth £12.80 per month!

UndercoverCop · 06/11/2023 19:51

@SweatyyBettyy what coverage do you get for that? Are you young?

Fluff3 · 06/11/2023 19:55

sep135 · 06/11/2023 18:58

Whether you believe the Tories have mismanaged the NHS or not, it's more fundamental than that. With an ageing population, longer life expectancy and increasing dependency, the NHS simply cannot deliver a decent standard of service in its current form. The consultants I know are the first to admit this.

Talking about PPE contracts and mates' contracts may be satisfying but it's not going to fix the NHS. Neither is Labour because it's not possible without major reform and probably a move to some kind of part-pay for those who can afford it. We need to stop treating it as a sacred cow and be honest about better alternatives that work in similar countries to ours.

Yes it might take a decade to transform the healthcare provision but at least it's a step in the right direction.

Problem with this is, it will be the workers (ie tax payers), that will have to pay the small fee. Whilst the non workers (the non tax payers), will get if for free. The workers will be screwd again. We all have to pay or nobody does.

Moondance1901 · 06/11/2023 19:57

So what's the excuse in Wales where Labour are in charge ?
Genuine question - what will a Labour government do better ?

SweatyyBettyy · 06/11/2023 20:00

@UndercoverCop from day 1 you get gp appts and physio. After 6 months you get up to £2500 for diagnostics and surgery on their approved list. They don't do complex surgery. They work with the NHS. So they step in if you have to wait more than 5 weeks for diagnostics/procedures. They only deal with 1 problem at a time. I work in a gp practice and know that all hospital departments have at least a 1 yr wait across the board. Scary times :(

quantumbutterfly · 06/11/2023 20:02

Theseventhmagpie · 05/11/2023 08:46

The NHS is not fit for purpose and hasn’t been for years. The model as it stands where everything is free to everyone simply cannot cope. Mass immigration has not helped and neither has the fact it has been poorly run.
Blaming the Tories is far too simplistic, it was failing under Labour too. It has wrongly been worshipped as some sort of sacred cow where more and more of our taxes are poured into it in the hope of improving it. Someone in power needs to have the guts to admit it’s never going to work in its current form and start looking at the French or German models.

this.

twoboystwodogs · 06/11/2023 20:04

Sadly it isn't just chronic underfunding of the NHS that is causing all the problem it is chronic underfunding of social support too. So much of what the NHS is dealing with relates to poverty - obesity, alcohol and drug dependence, mental health issues (I know this isn't just related to poverty but it is the most significant factor). GP services are broken because of it, A&E is broken because of it, it is all so tragic. And as pp said the Tories are deliberately screwing it up so they have the excuse to privatise it. But if we want the society where we want a fit for purpose and where people get the support they need to the don't say the NHS it has to be funded by taxes and no-one wants to pay them

Dorisbonson · 06/11/2023 20:04

The percentage of GDP we spend on the NHS is more than is spent on healthcare in Italy and Japan and in line with spending in France and Germany but less than the % GDP spent by the USA.

We don't need to spend more money on the NHS. We need it to be better managed. Whenever I have gone to a UK hospital i have been plenty of overstaffing (nurses chatting for over an hour! And only occasionally checking patients).

Dorisbonson · 06/11/2023 20:08

twoboystwodogs · 06/11/2023 20:04

Sadly it isn't just chronic underfunding of the NHS that is causing all the problem it is chronic underfunding of social support too. So much of what the NHS is dealing with relates to poverty - obesity, alcohol and drug dependence, mental health issues (I know this isn't just related to poverty but it is the most significant factor). GP services are broken because of it, A&E is broken because of it, it is all so tragic. And as pp said the Tories are deliberately screwing it up so they have the excuse to privatise it. But if we want the society where we want a fit for purpose and where people get the support they need to the don't say the NHS it has to be funded by taxes and no-one wants to pay them

It needs to spend what it has better to begin with. We spend 12% of GDP on the NHS.

The EU average is 9.9% of GDP spent on healthcare. We spend 25% more than the rest of Europe on average as a % of GDP.

I repeat the NHS is badly managed and needs to spend money more wisely.

Twilight7777 · 06/11/2023 20:11

Having been there around 11pm at night before, the nights are particularly busy, and the nurses words were ‘you’d think it was a third world country’! It was a full moon too and I know having worked in the nhs myself that nights with a full moon are always particularly bad.

Welshywitch · 06/11/2023 20:12

Mammajay · 06/11/2023 18:24

I definitely hope the current government are out at the next election but doesn't Wales have similar if not worse problems and their NHS is devolved?

Yes, Wales has a huge problem with our NHS and its been under Labour control for the last 24 years. Whilst I know they can only spend the money they are allocated by Westminster they continually waste huge amounts of funding on things - £33m on signs for the new 20 mile speed limit and £135m on by-pass plans which were never used.
£168 million could have made a huge difference to the Welsh NHS but unfortunately we have muppets in our devolved Labour government,

UndercoverCop · 06/11/2023 20:15

@SweatyyBettyy that's good, I just had an op privately and the care was wonderful. The staff had time space and resources. I don't believe the staff themselves are any different just a much better working environment. I think I'll look into it

Carpedimum · 06/11/2023 20:17

Totally concur @ElisabethZott I was shocked when we had to use A&E, it was like a third world war zone that you see on the news, most of the staff were great but you could tell some were completely worn down and so was their compassion. One woman was howling in pain, another weeping. There were several very, very old people dying on trolleys in the corridors, people with obviously broken limbs and bloody wounds in anguish. Then there were also a few with mental health issues, one man who had already been talked down from a bridge over a railway line. There was no confidentiality, no privacy, one woman was desperate for a pee, but couldn’t walk so she had to suddenly squat, I was utterly mortified that her dignity was stripped for the lack of help. I could go on, it was nearly 5 hours of witnessing a desperate situation before we were transferred to a different hospital and specialist ward where the care was truly fantastic. I echo the calls for a GE now. I’ve lived in U.S. we must not allow private health & insurance to become the norm here.

weirdoboelady · 06/11/2023 20:19

My husband was taken to A & E on 23rd Oct. Yes, a Monday. He had sudden severe pain in his back. I was (rather ironically) visiting a sick friend, so a neighbour took him in at about 3pm and I arrived to survey the scene at about 5pm.

It really was like a war scene. Mostly elderly people, and no, I didn't spot a single person who looked as if they shouldn't be there. My husband thought he had been triaged, but when he passed out from pain at about 6pm he was, after some discussion, taken through to be triaged properly. While he was unconscious my leg was braced to hold his head above the floor - I'd sort of caught him as he fell. He was accused of feigning unconsciousness and holding on to my leg until I pointed out that the arm the stupid staff member thought he was using to hold on is in fact paralysed, as shown in his notes.

I would estimate there were approximately 200 people waiting to be seen. There was nowhere to sit - not even any space on the floor. Announcements were being made saying that only those waiting to be seen were allowed an actual seat. I saw several puddles of urine - the toilets were at the very far end of the area, and my belief is that some people were too scared of missing their turn to visit these distant facilities in time.

When we arrived at the treatment area, there was a very long line of trollies. Staff admitted that my husband should be lying down, but there were no trollies available and no space. We were returned to the waiting area. Husband was promised pain relief before I arrived. This was eventually forthcoming (even staff members were incredulous) in the form of one small paracetamol tablet at approximately 8pm.

We were finally seen and discharged around midnight. Husband was taken far more seriously once they actually got the results of his blood tests! Staff were kind and helpful , but it was a real illustration of how the Tories are running down NHS services to justify selling them off.

MyNewGenericUsername · 06/11/2023 20:20

Fluff3 · 06/11/2023 19:47

Couldnt agree more. This country is over populated, no housing, and running out of room to build more, schools are so full that our childrens education is suffering, gps and hospitals cant cope. The roads are busy. The government needs to crack down .

Edited

I'm not really sure this is true...

See: https://www.ft.com/content/7a558711-c1b8-4a41-8e72-8470cbd117e5 "The natural population of the UK will begin to decline by the middle of the decade, leaving the country dependent on migration to increase the working-age population, according to new data."

And: https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/education/2023/may/29/more-90-primary-schools-in-england-to-close-or-face-closure-for-lack-of-pupils

UK natural population set to start to decline by 2025

ONS forecasts deaths will surpass births two decades earlier than expected marking demographic shift

https://www.ft.com/content/7a558711-c1b8-4a41-8e72-8470cbd117e5

emmaloo14 · 06/11/2023 20:24

I completely agree, but there is a added pressure from the lack of available GP appointments and more recently the lack of nhs dentists is having a detrimental effect on A&E as not everyone can afford dental treatment.

JenniferBooth · 06/11/2023 20:24

He was accused of feigning unconsciousness and holding on to my leg until I pointed out that the arm the stupid staff member thought he was using to hold on is in fact paralysed, as shown in his notes

How is money going to help attitudes like this.

Nursercurser · 06/11/2023 20:29

You are so right! I never go to A&E unless I am having a real emergency! I too worked in Arrowe Park Hospital in the A&E dept. and I loved it but I was on the nurse bank meaning that I could choose when and where to work because I trained in Brighton and when I applied to work in Arrowe Park Hospital I was told that they only gave work to their own students 😞. They are practically begging me to work there now! Unfortunately I would take a position in a flash but I can't because I have been diagnosed with brain cancer and I have got really severe short term memory problems, plus I can't drive due to risk of having siezures - so once I have been siezure free for a year which is soon I can drive again!😆👍

YorkshireLandlady · 06/11/2023 20:33

2 totally different experiences of A&E recently. Broke my shoulder on a Sunday morning, quick call to 111, arrived at hospital fully prepared with book, fully charged phone etc expecting to be there ages for sadly obvious reasons, didn't even get to sit down on arrival!
Straight through to minor injuries/xray/minor injuries & discharged with sling & painkillers within 90 minutes.
Brilliant staff, amazed at how quick it was.

6 weeks later, had to take a friend there on an evening with suspected Achilles damage, waited 4 hrs before being sent home as minor injuries wasn't open til next morning & then came back at 9am waited another 4 hours before being seen, Wait was so long the lovely nurses brought out a tea tray & biscuits & told us there were not any free beds in the whole hospital, nor were there any spare wheel chairs. Shocking, but not a single person complained in al the time. Its so appalling but the poor people trying to work with it have all my sympathy, its so wrong