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birthday gift for 89 year old FIL

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DominiqueBernard · 04/11/2023 20:24

He's French and lives in France. In very good health mentally and physically, wears a hearing aid and hears well with it. Intellectual and cultured, well travelled (ex military and FO), loves opera and Classical music, reads a lot of non fiction. Also loves to play golf, and to watch rugby. MIL has dementia, lives at home, he cares for her with nurses who visit each day. Christmas gift is a voucher for their favourite local restaurant.

For FIL's upcoming birthday his kids and their partners and children have arranged a weekend together (a semi-surprise) with a special lunch and have bought him a joint gift of 2 special, large, recently published hardbacks on subjects of particular interest to him.

I'd like to give him a little, thoughtful gift from me as he's someone I cherish who makes me feel incredibly welcome, and he has had a tough few months/year. I don't want to get anything ostentatious or embarrassingly expensive. But what?

Incidentally, he would find anything like a family photo overly cheesy/tacky.

Please help!

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Windintrees · 04/11/2023 20:27

Cashmere, sweater, gilet, gloves, scarf depending on your budget. Brora, house of Bruar or Johnstone of Elgin.

DominiqueBernard · 04/11/2023 20:30

Great idea, except SIL's family business is cashmere so we are all well stocked (this will sound awfully entitled, I know. We are definitely not well stocked in anything else, I promise!)

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Meduse · 04/11/2023 20:31

A book of some sort? A photo book of your part of the country or his? A book that you can inscribe something in-something in translation maybe.

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DisplayPurposesOnly · 04/11/2023 20:32

National Theatre At Home subscription - can be 1 to 12 months. Perfect for winter months.

Tramadolly · 04/11/2023 20:32

Silver keyring?

TicTacNicNak · 04/11/2023 20:33

How about a bookmark of some kind? You can get some beautiful ones made of leather, or thinly carved wood. Maybe one with a military or golf theme, or some interest he follows?

MrsDrudge · 04/11/2023 20:36

Silver golf tee and marker

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