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Do you understand the term "elevenses"?

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redskyanight · 04/11/2023 13:08

My company has decided to introduce a monthly "elevenses" where they will provide drinks and biscuits and staff are encouraged to come and talk to colleagues they don't normally speak to.

I was chatting about this at home and 20 year old DS said he'd absolutely no idea what "elevenses" were and had never heard the term before. DH reckons it is an old fashioned concept these days and will be incomprehensible to anyone under 35.

So, straw poll - have you/ your DC heard of elevenses and is this now an outdated term?

OP posts:
Terfosaurus · 04/11/2023 13:20

We used to have elevenses and foursies on pack holiday/ guide camp.

Manadou · 04/11/2023 13:20

scotstarstrikestwo · 04/11/2023 13:18

How utterly unnecessarily bitchy. Hope you're proud of yourself.

Calm down, for God's sake!

annahay · 04/11/2023 13:21

Anyone who's seen Lord of the rings should know what elevensies is!

orchardsquare · 04/11/2023 13:21

I'm not sure, but think it is what my mum and dad used to call 'coffee time' which was about 11am, when they were both at home, they'd have a milky coffee and a biscuit.

AdoraBell · 04/11/2023 13:22

I’m 55 and familiar with elenveses, I explained it to my DDs when we were living overseas. Their friends had “onces” after school. They asked why because it was 4pm not 11am or 11pm.

DramaAlpaca · 04/11/2023 13:22

I know, but I'm old and grew up on Enid Blyton books.

I must ask my adult DC if they know.

endofanera23 · 04/11/2023 13:22

Late 30s and didn't know what it was. I wouldn't really want it either as I tend to eat lunch about 12. If I'm in the office, I'd be having breakfast about 7 and a morning snack and coffee not long after arriving, like 9.30 (though at my desk while working - not taking a break that early!), then lunch at 12/12.15.

whatausername · 04/11/2023 13:23

Yep and use it. It's not common though. Some of my friends also know it. We're under 35.

Diolchynfawr · 04/11/2023 13:24

I’m 32 and know what elevenses are! The earliest socially acceptable time to eat cake 😁

notquitesoyoung · 04/11/2023 13:25

2 x young adults (just) would, it's my favourite time of day so elevenses was a word they just grew up knowing.

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 04/11/2023 13:25

Yes, I know what it is. I'm 40.

Farmers / trades people around here call the mid morning snack 'crib', for what it's worth.

I haven't heard of or thought about elevenses for ages, except for about a week ago! There was some rubbish on the radio about how people now don't eat the traditional 3 meals a day, that they eat about 6 times a day instead (which included snacks) And how that's all new and weird.

I was saying how it was like the researchers had never heard of elevenses, afternoon tea, or supper! Confused

updownleftrightstart · 04/11/2023 13:25

My 6 year old asked me yesterday if it was time for elevenses yet

Thedm · 04/11/2023 13:26

It’s not exactly a super secret code word. You’d have to be pretty thick not to figure out that it means a snack at around 11.

redskyanight · 04/11/2023 13:26

Spirro · 04/11/2023 13:15

It’s an old fashioned word but anyone who’s widely read would be familiar with it. If your DC have never heard it then perhaps you should have encouraged them to read more!

I'll make sure to tell DD who is an English Lit student, often surgically attached to a book and who has read a very wide range of texts that she should read more :)

She still claims to have never heard of elevenses (even though I know, for example, she did read Enid Blyton and Winnie the Pooh as a child). So I suspect seeing a term in a book does not necessarily translate to recognising it in a different context.

OP posts:
Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 04/11/2023 13:26

Yes I know what it means. But my son wouldn't since he's 4!

OneRingToRuleThemAll · 04/11/2023 13:26

It comes after second breakfast and before luncheon.

Doggymummar · 04/11/2023 13:27

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 04/11/2023 13:15

Yes I do (but I'm old enough to recall when companies had tea ladies pushing trollies around).

We had that at American express in Brighton with sausage or bacon sandwiches too or gooey cookies just out the oven.

easylikeasundaymorn · 04/11/2023 13:27

scotstarstrikestwo · 04/11/2023 13:18

How utterly unnecessarily bitchy. Hope you're proud of yourself.

to be fair while perhaps the bit about encouraging the kids to read was unnecessary I agree with the general point - I'm 35 (because that's the age the OP's DH referred to as the apparent cut off of knowledge!) and it's a word I know, but would say its from (older) books rather than from it being used in real life.

Obviously there's not an exact correlation between being well read and knowing the word, it would depend on the type of books you read for one thing - if you were into literary modern fiction or sci fi maybe not. The only books I can specifically think of using it where I would have picked it up would be things like famous five or the enid blyton school stories (which are hardly great literature!) and LOTR (can't remember if hobbits have elevenses before or after second breakfast!)

edited because @OneRingToRuleThemAll has helpfully clarified!

DinaofCloud9 · 04/11/2023 13:27

I've just asked my 20 year old. He's heard of it but didn't exactly know what it was. I was sure he'd know lol.

RoseRows · 04/11/2023 13:28

I’m 31 and I am familiar with the term but don’t use it myself

Floralnomad · 04/11/2023 13:28

I have 2 adult children under 30 and they both know what ‘Elevenses’ are , I thought it was a well known thing .

Storynanny1 · 04/11/2023 13:29

I’m 67 and elevensies was just a drink and one biscuit when I was a child
When mine were little in the 80’s and 99’s it was a drink and a biscuit at 10.30 in front of Playschool on the tv.
It now seems to be called snack time for my grandchildren - but more ( much more) frequently!
When I’ve taken them to storytime at the library I’ve been surprised to see mums dishing out snacks during a 30 min session.
Secretly Surprised, not criticising I’m keen to add! I say nothing, I know how to be a good mother in law etc - thanks to mumsnet!

SirenSays · 04/11/2023 13:29

Pippin : What about breakfast?
Aragorn : You've already had it.
Pippin : We've had one, yes. What about second breakfast?
[Aragorn turns and walks away]
Merry : I don't think he knows about second breakfast, Pip.
Pippin : What about elevenses? Luncheon? Afternoon tea? Dinner? Supper? He knows about them, doesn't he?
Merry : I wouldn't count on it.

dribsundrabs · 04/11/2023 13:30

redskyanight · 04/11/2023 13:13

For those unfamiliar with the word "elevenses" is a mid morning break for tea or coffee with light refreshments. Normally taken around 11am - hence the word "elevenses".

In most workplaces, people can either get tea/coffee whenever they like (and hence meet random people in the kitchen) or else take scheduled breaks at staggered times, so that a minimum level of service is maintained. My workplace is the former. We do have fortnightly departmental meetings, with refreshments, to get everyone together, but the only time we would have refreshments with no meeting attached would be Christmas.

So, yes, the description of your elevenses does sound a bit odd in this context. The word is familiar to me, but I'm 51.

Slipknotted · 04/11/2023 13:31

I just asked my 11 year old, and he did.

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