If you were trying to arrange a start date for 3.5 weeks and they hardly respond to messages ?
I had a recommendation for what I’m told is a really good cleaner so I messaged and she replied after 3 days to say yes she has a few spare slots. Ever since I’ve been trying to arrange a start date but there’s 4/5/6 days before she replies to messages (that I can see she’s read?) and the potential start date is mentioned has now passed as she said she had space I asked about a particular date but she didn’t reply do I assume she doesn’t actually want the job ? Why say yes though even up till 6 days ago ??!!