Mil died last week. The proceeds are split between DH and his 2 brothers.
It's come to light that mil had been giving the youngest son over £25k over the last 5 years. Mil was very secretive about her money which was her right.
This means IHT needs to be paid.
DH and one Bil have only received Christmas and birthday money (£50 per event)
Now to my question is the IHT spilt between the 3 as younger Bil won't or can't pay beforehand.