Should I raise this with Pre-school

[Motherofmonsters]

Hello everyone,

When I went to undress DD (just turned 4) she said you'll see my knickers in a minute. I don't use the word knickers so I said did some one say knickers to you. She said yeah 'A' did. I asked what he said about knickers and she said he calls me 'name' knickers. I asked if he said anything else and she said no, also checked if she had shown him and she said no.

I think really it's a bit of nothing but wasn't sure if I should raise it or not. She had also mentioned he hit her today but she has had a funny couple of days at nursery and has been easily frustrated herself

Yes I would just want have a chat with the head / equivalent of. Just raise it as a concern. It may well be a miss communication but better to be safe.

I would mention that she’s not been herself, and see if the staff have noticed anything. But the incidents you mention sound like classic preschool silliness rather than anything sinister.

I don't think it's anything sinister just wasn't sure if it's something that should be brought up. I think she's probably just been a bit tired

I'd be more concerned that he hit her than the silly words. He might be one of those rough boys that manage to bang into everyone just while sitting down for circle time, some kids take no notice, some kids claim to have been hit. But if he is actually hitting her you should be informed. I work with this age group and usually I like to get as much feedback as possible from parents, it helps everyone especially the child if we work together. That said I know some staff are not so open to parent involvement so gauge it yourself.

Thanks all,
She's just told me that the boy spits at her. So might just have a casual chat.
Her older brother is one of those who accidentally crashed into people and has no idea of space so she's used to being accidently knocked.