Over the last 5 years I have had a daughter, my DH/DP of 15 years left when she was 1. I then started a new relationship and absolutely adored him. We split up 18 months ago and I am still hung up on him. I still cry nearly every day.
My daughter and I have a nice life, I have a very strong support network here and a good job (teacher) however I can’t help feel there is more than this. I am always struggling for money; I live in my overdraft and credit cards. My social life is very tied up with my exboyfriend (shared hobby) and I can’t seem to break free.
How can I shake things up? I work part time, I have hobbies but I’d love to meet someone and also I’d love to have some disposable income and autonomy over my life.
Any suggestions for how to improve things here? I have a friend who has gone abroad to teach and she is urging me to do the same but I’m so worried about uprooting my daughter and losing my support. Can anyone offer any advice? Thank you