Being let out of prison

[Herewegoagain55]

Dd ex is being let out of prison for the 3rd time. Still waiting for him to jump in front of a train. ffs always breaks his promises.

When someone is let out of prison OP they usually have to report to probation and will be on license, if you have any concerns about his behavior towards your daughter speak to the supervising officer or the victim liaison officer

Yeah I know everything is in place. Just same old shit

Are you all/ any of you in danger of him breaching restraining orders ect, (assuming you have one)?
Has he been jailed before for breaching jail conditions?
can you get a panic alarm? I know they're really hard to get and most areas only have a few.
does your dd want any kind of relationship with him?

I'm sorry op. You sound well versed in the drill . Out . Make empty threats. Do something that gets you back in .

I'd cut ties . There is absolutely nothing you can do. It's all down to him now .

I don't understand yoir post there's no form of contact

Everything is in place. He's been back 3 times for breaking restraining orders etc.

No she does not . She's seeing someone else now. Also if she did see him her children would go in care .

Equally the same point can be made of your post.
Whats the point in posting about him, if he has no impact on your, her or her children’s lives?
(Venting of course is an option)

But he does have some impact upon you - he’s in your head. Eject him from there

I did not understand the post hence why i said I don't understand.

And it's not simple as you think there's a hell of alot going on .

Dd is trying to find out roughly where he will be put. So she knows where to avoid. Social services are paying for cabs so she can safely get her child to school. I really hope he's been sent a long way away . Doubt it though 😭

I would assume its because of the significant risk he poses to the family? You don't go to prison repeatedly for playing chess with aggression

💐 thank you . Yes exactly. He is a heigh risk offender.

It’s almost like it has a huge impact on her and her family’s lives…

Does it matter ? The closer the time comes which is today the more worried we will be . Constantly looking over our shoulders. Wounder what's going to happen. Also that under a different user name . I thought there was a rule on directing others to a different user name? In this case its not overly important. But sometimes it is.

Are there rules on mn that say how often and when I can post about the situation. When he's in prison it's less of a worry. But as soon ad they start planning his release that when we all begin to worry. And get anxious. You have absolutely no idea in how this impacts on dd and the whole family . And If me posting/sounding off on MN so then be it. Does this effect you In anyway shape or form?

Omg it does not matter what are you not getting .

And your point is?

Go for it OP, you've got to put it somewhere. MN police can ignore it if they don't like it. I've nothing useful to add so good luck, it can't be easy.

Thank you. I don't see that it matters. I don't have anyone in RL that I can sound of to etc. And im using mn to express things that's all

It seems I need permission of when, how,what, how often I post 😔

I have never been in your position but you must be worried out of my mind, Any concerns get your DD to speak to her social worker. I would advise she doesn’t post on social media at all in any way whatsoever. Just a pic could be shared by someone and give an indication of any pattern of behaviour of where she could be.

Yeah she is in contact with SW. There's a safety plan in place. It's definitely worrying. But have to take it as it comes.