I had a personal crisis a couple of years ago. Most people were very supportive but there are a couple of women who made a big thing of being "there" for me, and basically used it as a way to get all the gossip and then embellished it and passed it on.
A mutual friend is going through a nasty divorce, much in need of a supportive ear and I can see these women going out of their way to become close to her.
In both cases, they're people we know but not especially close friends, until they targeted us when feeling in need of friends iyswim.
Anyway, I'm generally a keep out of others' business type, but the behaviour I'm seeing from them now is exactly what they did to me.
Should I say anything? How would you receive it if I did?