My mum died when I was 13 of breast cancer.
She was my best friend and I was a only child.
I went to live with my dad.
My nan (mums mum ) was like a mum to me.
I seen her daily and as she aged I became her carer from 19 till she passed when I was 27.
It was a tough time and my aunty (who lives in Australia) didn't help,she didn't come over to help sort out carers in the later stages or even come to funeral (blamed covid)
My aunty always said when your nan dies I will get you over here,you can visit ,even think of moving over here,you have me and your uncle and cousin.
We are here for you.
She used to ring me and my nana twice a week,thank me for taking care of her mum,send me £50-£100 every few months as a thankyou (I never wanted it )
My nan died and that was it
She said she no longer had house phone and we would email
She emails me once every 5 months.
I email her and she sends one email back but doesn't keep up the conversation.
All I wanted was to have family and feel loved.
I know it's not her duty but she knows I've lost my mum and my nan and I really have nobody left.
I don't know what I did wrong
Why she changed her mind about letting me visit her
Her emails always say ...hope to see you again one day.
She has lots of money so could visit
And I would never invite myself to hers (I could afford a plane ticket ) but it's clear she doesn't want that
Do you think I did something wrong?
Why do you think after my nan died she stopped talking to me?