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Improving concentration - Autism & ADHD

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Allthescreens · 27/09/2023 20:17

DS2 is 12. Has autism, inattentive ADHD & epilepsy (come on with onset of puberty) In Year 8 at mainstream secondary school. At primary was getting 32.5 hours 1:1, gets about 20 at secondary school. Has EHCP, in place since Year 1.

Due to the heavy levels of support he needed, we were unsure whether to send him to mainstream secondary. We took the risk & he positively thrived. Showing particular aptitude for languages (is an international school, so this is great). Working at or around expected level in most subjects. In history, he was falling behind so teacher suggested a reduced curriculum for him, which we agreed to. He won an effort prize in Geography & also the overall year group prize (210 students in the year).

Fast forward to Year 8. He still loves it & works very hard. Can do most of the work when practical/formulaic eg maths, art, languages. But seems to struggle hugely with anything like reading comprehension or research homework tasks & can only do these with our support. Is also very forgetful, again linked to concentration, I feel.

I wonder if it is his concentration holding him up. He needs prompting to do everything, eg getting dressed, eating etc. So does anybody know how to boost concentration in this kind of child? Should we be looking at adjusting his ADHD meds dosage- he currently has Xaggitin. He has put on roughly 1 stone since his last check up. Will the epilepsy be affecting his concentration? Are there any strategies for helping with reading?

Thank you if you have read this far & any advice gratefully received!

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Sommerled · 11/10/2023 22:12

Allthescreens · 11/10/2023 21:40

He only does Scouts & drama club (which is a Tuesday lunchtime at school). And a gardening club once every 3 months. Scouts is hugely beneficial for him in terms of social skills, independence & practical skills. It is mainly activities for his brothers that disrupt the routine - either they clash or DH is not home from work & I have to do it all & take him with me or vice versa.

I'm sure most 12 year olds could be left home again, but not DS. He has a lesser sense of danger than eg DS3 who is 9 & also he may have a seizure. He can be left if DS1 is there, but DS1 is usually the one with activities.

Absolutely appreciate you not wanting to leave him home alone. Balancing the needs of several DC + neurodiversity in the mix isn't easy is it!

ThisWormHasTurned · 11/10/2023 22:20

I’m AuDHD and dyslexic. Couple of observations…epilepsy meds can make you foggy headed. I took them as pain relief and it was way harder to focus my brain (didn’t know I was AuDHD at that time). It’s definitely worth discussing his meds with his specialists to see if they need a tweak). I personally find Omega 3 helps me with short term memory (and my dry skin!).
Change is tough when you’re Autistic. I’ve not got to grips with DD’s new timetable yet 4 weeks into term! In terms of focus and being organised, I have LOADS of alerts, alarms, Apple watch with alerts and it vibrates on the hour.
Reading silently is difficult to focus on and it’s easy to get distracted. Student services advised me to look at alternatives like reading aloud (audio books these days), highlighters, lots of colours, I used to burn rosemary oil because it’s meant to help you remember stuff. Basically using multiple input sources to help the information to go in. Have you considered putting a tag or tile on his PE kit so it can be found by a phone? I’d push to see if there’s any other help or support he’s entitled to. Hope there’s some bits that help!

Allthescreens · 12/10/2023 11:14

Thank you all for the input. A lot to take on board & try. School are being very supportive, which is great.

So far I am trying/will try:

  • Omega 3 supplements (start tomorrow)
  • Play board games at home
  • Using timers
  • Exercise every day
  • To do/remember lists for school
  • Will look into audio resources
  • Will encourage reading time
  • Requested Educational Psychologist review through school. Form sent already
  • Requested call from Epilepsy consultant, in case meds having effects & can be adjusted. Also to chase date for check up in November
  • Will find details & request review from Community paediatrician (ADHD/autism)
  • Is it worth requesting OT review? They already officially diagnosed slow handwriting so he gets extra exam time.

I am really going for this & will not let it beat me, without a fight anyway!

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finearabcharger · 12/10/2023 13:49

OT sounds like a good plan

Allthescreens · 12/10/2023 14:20

Oh good, thank you. I wasn't sure if this is within their remit or more just motor skills.

I have also had the idea of contacting hos primary school SENCO to see if they can pass on any strategies they used with him to Senior school- they have seen him as currently described.

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Allthescreens · 15/10/2023 10:15

Thank you, looks like there are some useful links there.

Since I've been sending him in with a list for the day, which he puts in his blazer pocket, he has actually done better at remembering. Found & brought home both lunch bag & PE kit. And on Friday was quicker than his brother out of school & had his brother's friends calling DS1 to hurry up 😂 I don't think he has been quicker in the year & a bit they have been there together!

Not sure about concentration in class, but at least some positives there.

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