Adult autism: ASD vs childhood trauma?

[Kat19899]

Sorry I didn’t really know where to post this, hope this is OK! I’ve tried to Google this but not really getting anywhere.

I am exploring the possibility of having ASD as it would make so much sense. However, I feel like a lot of my symptoms (but not all of them) could be explained by childhood trauma (alcoholic parents, emotional neglect etc.).

There is a lot of confusion e.g. I don’t remember having meltdowns, but I was smacked during tantrums and sent to my room alone a lot so maybe I learned to hold them in. Then there are things that could be explained away – new people, forming relationships, eye contact and the “rules” of conversation (social anxiety), special interests (hobbies), alone time (introversion/left alone in childhood), seams, tags & waistbands (just annoying clothes), routines and planning (being organised).

I have always felt very different, but I’m worried that I’m only considering ASD because it’s “trendy” and there’s a lot of relatable content. So I’m hoping to hear from people about how they decided whether ASD or emotional trauma was probably the cause of their symptoms.

Just wanted to add the reason I’m even more confused is that I saw a video of someone who had been diagnosed asking them self the same autism/trauma question and they said that the trauma can be created by living in an undiagnosed household/family. My dad had autistic traits, but again maybe I’m clutching at straws

You are quite correct that the two can cause similar presentation. Quite honestly it's probably better to explore with a professional as they can help you properly. I hope you find the answers you need.

Yes, childhood trauma can have a similar representation as PP says. You need to seek professional help to unravel it. Good luck!

Have a look at the Coventry Grid which looks at the subtle differences in which the two present https://www.oxfordshire.gov.uk/sites/default/files/file/virtual-school/coventrygrid.pdf

Too much overlap to ever really have a concrete knowing.

I have complex ptsd from childhood sa. I handle relationships badly, have extremely low periods and generally find life quite difficult to navigate.

Also my general home life was very not good.

Thank you, this is so useful! It’s interest that there’s so much overlap but slightly different as you say. Maybe I could ask a family member if they remember much about my behaviour as a child