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What would you do with this potential job offer?

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ChristopherTalken · 22/09/2023 21:05

I have been at my current job for 6 years. They have been really good to me, including offering me a new role that would allow me lots of flexibility with my childcare. They are also flexible with hours, so I can drop DC off later at nursery so they have a shorter day, I can leave work early as much as I want, work from home at least three days a week, often more. If I want to go to the gym and start work later I can. They dont micromanage me.
The problem is, I am so so so unmotivated. I dont know why. I find my job interesting but quite boring and not challenging. I can do it with my eyes shut. And I know my performance is now really subpar. Its demotivating. I know I am capable of so much more. It does make me worry that if there was a future restructure, my role would be at risk.

A friend of mine works for an amazing company and she mentioned a vacancy and asked if she could pass my details on. The CEO reached out to me directly to ask for a chat. I am confident that if I wanted this role, I could have it. It would be full on. I have been told the role has great flexibility but the nature of it would mean I would be busier and def not as much freedom as I have now.

Here is the twist. I am due to have major surgery soon and I am anticipating has a pretty lengthy recovery period. At my current job I have full pretty much unlimited sick pay. If I left and then found myself struggling to get back to full health, I would be left with no protection. I would have no rights.

I also have a lot on my plate personally atm, but there is a small part of me niggling that I am unhappy at work and perhaps if I changed that, the personal stuff would not feel so overwhelming if I was happier in my day to day,.

Would I be stupid to even consider changing jobs with so much going on and leaving myself vulnerable?

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50lessfat · 22/09/2023 21:07

Yes. Have your surgery. Recover.

MotherOfGodWeeFella · 22/09/2023 21:18

I think I'd be upfront with the CEO and see what happens.

addicteetopawpatrol · 22/09/2023 21:20

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Starseeking · 22/09/2023 21:32

Stay in your current job.

If you move now, your new job could sack you for any reason before you reach 2 years service. Presumably your surgery is happening within that time, so I'd stay.

Be bored for the time from now until your surgery, then recover as you need to.

When you go back to work, you'll be grateful that you don't have to go at full pelt. Only start looking for a new job again once you are fully fit and back on fighting form.

You would be absolutely mad to leave your current role, unless you have a significant amount of savings which could last you a couple of years.

ChristopherTalken · 25/09/2023 10:11

Thanks all. I think I knew this deep down. I also calculated my redundancy pay out so the worst case scenario is I stay and get paid a fair whack to leave. At least this shows I am still employable elsewhere!

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MissKittyFantastico84 · 25/09/2023 10:15

I mean sure - but sometimes taking a risk can be worth it. I went freelance about 6 months before I knew I was going to need a kidney transplant. Was the best thing I'd ever done....

I second having the chat with the CEO and being totally honest. You have nothing to lose!

PinkVelvett · 25/09/2023 12:38

ChristopherTalken · 25/09/2023 10:11

Thanks all. I think I knew this deep down. I also calculated my redundancy pay out so the worst case scenario is I stay and get paid a fair whack to leave. At least this shows I am still employable elsewhere!

Definitely speak to the CEO to explain - you never know you might get lucky!

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