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Can you do your current job until 68?

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CrystalVision · 17/09/2023 19:14

Me and DH are trying to work out plans for the future. I'm 44, he's 48. I'm high up in an office based professional role (think Head of HR) and he's a builder. I'm trying to get to a Director position as I think I'll be better protected against younger (cheaper) whippersnappers doing my job but I feel like this will be completely exhausting in even 15 years time, never mind 25. It's even worse for DH as building is a young persons game (his words). The reason we're worrying is that we've recently moved and to afford it, the term is currently running til we're 73. Obviously we're trying to overpay and will reduce the term when the five year rate ends, but it's got us worried that we won't be able to work at the same rate we do now when we start to approach retirement. Two kids (4&6) so at the point we might be looking to drop hours, we'll be part funding university! Are we the only ones in this position??

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Pumpkinpie1 · 19/09/2023 13:51

Did I misunderstand OP? Moved into a house with a mortgage paid up when 73?
crazy

TallerThanAverage · 19/09/2023 18:25

SwiftNameChange · 18/09/2023 11:10

No, I would struggle. I'm a police officer and these no chance I could do the fitness test at 68.

When will you have done 30 years?

andrainwillmaketheflowersgrow · 19/09/2023 18:26

I doubt it. I'm a dog walker.

I could do the pet-sitting side of it though, or close my business and go and work in a daycare or similar.

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NCNC4 · 20/09/2023 02:44

We’re very similar ages to you, OP, but don’t have children and we both work desk jobs (primarily from home). Although I probably could stay in my job until state pension age (68), the thought of another 24 years of it fills me with absolute dread. I feel tired, drained, apathetic and want to retire by 60 at the latest, so that’s another 16 years, which is still pretty bad but more palatable than 24 years. My husband despises his job (or any job) and wants to retire immediately (not happening!). Working from home has had a big impact… if I was still having to commute in each day, my expiry date would be a lot sooner.

Our mortgage is due to be paid off in four year’s time, then we’re going to throw that money at savings/pensions. I have no idea at this point if 60 is a realistic retirement age for either of us. How does one calculate these things? As someone said upthread, their colleague had a stroke at 56 so who really knows what to plan for? I know that once I’m out of the work force, I never want to have to go back, so I want to build up more savings than I think we’ll ever need.

I don’t even know if my job will exist in 15-20 years’ time. It gets harder every year (increased volume and complexity) and I may be automated out of a job at some point. As I work in Higher Education, that may take considerably longer to do than if I were in the private sector, so if I can cling onto my job for at least another 10+ years then a healthy redundancy package could be enough to cover me until retirement age anyway.

We have been basing our (vague) projections on the assumption that both of us will receive full state pensions, but of course if that’s scrapped at any point then we will have to have a major re-think.

We may receive inheritances at some point, but we never factor that in because it cannot be relied upon (and most likely we’d be retired by then anyway, so it wouldn’t be all that helpful).

16 more years of work though… shudder!

mjf981 · 20/09/2023 03:59

Ugh this is a depressing thread - so many people desperate to stop working. I completely understand and commiserate..
Isn't it mad that we spend the majority of our lives doing things we hate and looking to retirement, when our bodies and brains are often too broken to really take advantage of all the free time. With all the advances in the world, we are still but cogs in the machines of the uber-rich. Society and the world needs a reset (it'll never happen though, so I'd advise anyone with young kids to encourage them to think outside the box and live an unconventional life - try not to be a slave to a paycheque).

thenewaveragebear1983 · 20/09/2023 06:18

I could do mine physically, I do a wfh data role for a charity, except I think I’d go insane with boredom. Plus I will be replaced by AI, I’d imagine fairly soon, once the tech becomes more widely available.

everetting · 20/09/2023 15:04

But mij people still need to earn a living.

evilharpy · 20/09/2023 16:24

everetting · 20/09/2023 15:04

But mij people still need to earn a living.

Agreed. I've had various hobbies that have turned into small businesses, but only as a very part time thing. There's no way I could have done any of those full time and actually made it pay the bills without having to work 60 hours a week.

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