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What family dinners did you grow up with?

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ValkyrieAssassin · 17/09/2023 14:43

Both my parents were excellent cooks. And I and my sister relished food in a very big way so I expect it was quite satisfying to cook for us. For context i was born in 1973 and Dsis in 1976. I am not from the UK which makes a difference I think because meat was cheap when I was growing up. Not particularly well off- thoroughly middle class as both parents were teachers (DM part time from when I was born).

Our fairly regular family meals

  • french onion soup
  • pumpkin soup
  • chicken noodle soup
  • minestrone with homemade meatballs
  • spanakopita
  • beef wellington (every single birthday)
  • chicken schnitzel with apple sauce, mash and peas
  • beef filet on mustard crouton with brandy cream sauce
  • semolina gnocchi with spicy tomato basil sauce
  • pumpkin gnocchi (homemade) with sage cream sauce
  • rissoles with mushroom gravy
  • sausages and mash
  • seafood pancakes
  • chicken and veg pancakes
  • bacon and sweetcorn chowder
  • homemade asparagus soup (my mother was a Delia Smith devotee)

Most of this I would never cook in a regular week. It's mainly pasta, tacos, pasta and easy because I have children with a range of SEN that makes eating generally difficult for them.

I am feeling nostalgic this afternoon and am curious what sorts of dishes you had while growing up, and if you make them now for your own family or not.

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Floralnomad · 17/09/2023 14:46

My mum was a good but unadventurous cook and my dad was a plain eater so we grew up with roasts , cottage pie , casseroles , pies etc basically meat and veg every meal . Aside from the casseroles we eat very differently as we only eat chicken , my husband doesn’t particularly like roasts and our meals are mainly fish / veggie / curry / rice / pasta based .

kirinm · 17/09/2023 14:48

Nothing like yours.

Spaghetti bolognese
Chicken fricassee
Roast dinners
Sausage and mash
Crispy pancakes
Savoury mince

Bubbleandsqueak22 · 17/09/2023 14:49

Quiche
Toad in the hole
Chicken casserole
Ham, egg and chips
Beef stew and dumplings
Cottage pie
Tomato soup with garlic bread

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kirinm · 17/09/2023 14:49

My daughter eats a lot of salmon, sausages, steak, veg, pasta, rice etc. she's a pain and really fussy so it's all very bland.

ValkyrieAssassin · 17/09/2023 14:50

Ooh tomato soup. I love it.

I never had cottage pie before i came to the UK. Sadly no-one in my house eats it so it is something I only have when out.

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Vettrianofan · 17/09/2023 14:54

Lasagne, and mince and tatties.

FatCatatPaddingtonStation · 17/09/2023 14:56

With my dad and stepmum

Spag Bol
Chile Con Carne
Beef/chicken/pork casserole
Roast
Cottage pie
Sausage and Mash
Chicken thighs, new pots and veg

Special occasions - poached salmon dressed with peeled cucumber scales, mayo, new pots and salad.

With mum

Stir Fry
Homous and pitta
Chicken noodle soup
Rice and lentil soup
Dhal / curried black eyed beans/ chick peas etc
Falafel
lots of salad
Jacket pots and toppings
Tofu and noodles
Spaghetti and tomato sauce
Minestrone
Bean Chilli

Needless to say, we all farted a lot! 😆😆

Born early 70s

EmmaGrundyForPM · 17/09/2023 14:57

Child of the 70s here

Findus Crispy Pancakes
Pork chops with mashed potato and onion sauce out of a packet
Spag bol made with a tin of condensed tomato soup
Shepherd's Pie made with the same meat mixture as the Spag Bol.
On Sundays We'd have a jacket potato with cheese. We only had a roast if people came to stay.

We'd have a glass of milk with tea. And a yoghurt for pudding.

My Mum worked FT and hated cooking. Once a week she went to an evening class and Dad was left in charge. We'd either have sausages with no accompaniment - just sausages - or he'd take us out to a park and we'd have fish and chips with lemonade. Highlight of our week.

Notlaughingalot · 17/09/2023 15:01

A lot of packet meals such as Findus pancakes, and Vesta paella.

We also had lots of rice with meals

Fray Bentos steak and kidney pies.

Always fish and chips on Fridays

Salads, which were very unadventurous. Mostly a tin of John West salmon, cucumber, tomato and lettuce, with salad cream.

Puddings were

Angel Delight
Packet lemon meringue pie
Viennetta
Rice pudding
Steamed sponge pudding and custard.

I'm horrified at the thought of all the UPF we must have been eating.

mondaytosunday · 17/09/2023 15:08

My mum was a fantastic cook. My dad could just sbout boil an egg!
She made an amazing curry, tarragon chicken, a fish in white sauce with grapes, and many more. Christmas dinner was my favourite meal and we have t d er been able to recreate her stuffing! She was great at pastry and renowned for her apple and freshly picked blackberry pies, treacle tart and so on (unfortunately I don't like pastry). Also made an amazing Christmas cake. And I loved her crème caramel with hardened caramel she swirled at the bottom (to become the top). Lots of lovely soups too.
She lived in a bedsit when single and abroad doing medical social work so didn't really learn to cook until she was married in the late 1950s in her 30s.

Doyoureallyhavetoask · 17/09/2023 15:11

Sausages cooked in egg
White fish cooked in milk
Rubbery solid macaroni cheese
Stew with sausage and beef

Not nostalgic!

UnconventionalLife · 17/09/2023 15:14

My mum was not a good cook & meals were v basic & plain. She overcooked everything & had zero interest in it. I thought I was a fussy eater until I stayed with someone who was a good cook & I realised that food could taste delicious!

Once I was old enough I taught myself to cook & I am told I'm an excellent cook. My dc have v different experiences than I had around food.

Typical childhood dinner were:

Fried lamb chops, overcooked till like shoeleather, tin of peas, plain boiled potatoes. No butter or herbs etc

Mash, made by badly mashing boiled potatoes without butter/ milk/ cream etc. They were always lumpy & I recall an odd metallic taste. Tin of beans, greasy Fried egg cooked in oil. This dinner made me gag one time

Beef stew, sauce made from a packet of oxtail soup. No other seasoning. Lumps of beef, carrots & onions cooked in oxtail soup served with the lumpy mash

Leftover stew (always lots funnily enough) was converted into cottage pie on the second day with the same dry mash on top.

Fried gammon steaks with a ring of tinned pineapple, frozen peas, oven chips. I quite liked this dinner

Roast stuffed heart or beef- cooked till it was literally like chewing leather

My 2 fav dinners were roast chicken, roast potatoes, marrowfat peas & gravy

Or omelette served with sautéed left over boiled potatoes. She was v good at both of these

My father didn't cook & if he was in charge we'd get a fry up / chip shop chicken & chips or Chinese. We loved the rare occasions when he had to look after dinner!

Things got easier for my parents once M&S opened a food hall in their town

StoatofDisarray · 17/09/2023 15:16

My mum was a reluctant cook. I was born. In 1967 and we were poor. We were left to sort out our own breakfasts (toast with margarine or shredded wheat and milk) And we had free school lunches.

In the evening, it was usually some combination of minced beef and potatoes, or a single sausage and mash, beans on toast or budget tinned tomato soup with mounds of mashed potato floating in it. No pasta, no rice, no stir fry, no veg other than carrots, peas and potatoes. On Sunday we had a roast chicken and on Monday she used the bones to make a thick, salty, flavourless white paste she called chicken soup. It was grim!

onwardandupwards · 17/09/2023 15:22

Dried out chicken with dry boiled potatoes, mushy veg and lumpy gravy
Pork that was so chewy was hard to eat with dry pasta and spaghetti hoops
Tinned meat and chips
Tomato sauce sandwiches
Some kind of pasta bake with salt and vinegar crisps crushed up on top
Cottage pie which considering the rest of it was ok

ValkyrieAssassin · 17/09/2023 15:37

Oh i had forgotten stuffed heart. DM used to make it stiffed with paxo stuffing. She was the only one who ate it though.

She also adored crumbed fried lambs brains (cold) and iceberg and lettuce white bread sandwiches.

I am not nostalgic at all for those.

Kidneys with rice and cream sauce though.... mmmmm. Yum.

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Bluevelvetsofa · 17/09/2023 15:38

Meat and potato pie
Blackberry pie
Stew
Plaice fillet and chips
Tinned salmon, salad, bread and butter
Rice pudding

jenn88 · 17/09/2023 15:41

We were not well off,
I recall a mince and peas type dish, I think
The sauce was just an oxo cube?
Liver and onions 🤮
Spag Bol
Stew, a huge amount so would have for 2/3 days

Gymmum82 · 17/09/2023 15:49

Spag bol
lasagne
cottage pie
roast dinner
meat and boiled potatoes

Mum is a good but plain cook. Ironically Dad is an excellent cook but only discovered this after retirement

BubblePopPop · 17/09/2023 15:57

The main ones:

Corned beef hash
Cottage/Shepherds pie
Chilli con carne
Roast dinners
Tuna pasta bake
Macaroni cheese

HoppingPavlova · 17/09/2023 16:02

Meat and three veg, by which I mean veg that had the shit boiled out of them in salted water. The meat was usually lamb chops or cutlets mainly as lamb was the cheapest meat when I was young. Or steak, which was next cheapest but not as cheap as lamb.

Except Sundays where we had roast and baked veg, that was so much better - think nice roasted pumpkin instead of horrid watery boiled pumpkin.

Saturday lunch was always a neighbourhood BBQ where sausage was the meat.

Sometimes we got really lucky and got a chook which was roasted. That was if we won the chook on the chook wheel raffle down local shops or had really special visitors and parents would splash out. Chicken was scarce and really dear.

Ham was a special treat at Christmas and was ordered at the butcher 6 months in advance. Any other form of pork was viewed with suspicion. Mince was not sold, instead you had the contraption at home that clamped on your bench where you had to mince the steak yourself, so that was never done, it was a gadget that rarely made its way out of the cupboard, understandably. You couldn’t buy meat in strips or cubes, you had to do that yourself, but my parents alway cooked whole chops, steaks etc.

Abeli · 17/09/2023 16:12

I grew up in the 60s and 70s. Everything was cooked from scratch but was quite plain. Roasts, stews, casseroles, cottage pie, shepherd's pie, lamb chops. Usually with home grown veg. Always a pudding, usually a fruit pie or crumble, again home grown fruit and home made pudding.
This was before ordinary people in the UK had heard of pasta or spices.
It was fairly healthy and we never had snacks between meals.

GigiAnnna · 17/09/2023 16:14

Born in the 80s. I had roast dinner, cottage pie, spaghetti bologense. The rest was freezer food. My mum wasn't a good cook.

ThreeRingCircus · 17/09/2023 16:26

Very traditional meals and meat was almost always minced beef (or a joint of pork.)

Cottage pie
Hotpot
Casseroles
Stew and dumplings
Roast pork
Jacket potatoes with baked beans

Any salads were really boring. Lettuce, cucumber, tomato and some cottage cheese or sliced ham.

Dad used to make us boil in the bag fish in parsley sauce, Heinz tomato soup with cheese on toast or findus crispy pancakes.

I'm more adventurous as a cook and we eat recipes from all over the world but I think that's just been a general cultural shift in family cooking since I was a child. I still like boil in the bag fish though!

Doyoureallyhavetoask · 17/09/2023 19:57

@onwardandupwards oh I'd forgotten the pasta bake with crushed crisps on top. Not sure I'm glad I now remember it!

Hedjwitch · 17/09/2023 20:11

Egg and chips
Stew
Spaghetti
Crispy pancakes
Sausages and mash
Liver and onions
Cottage pie
Soup
Baked potatoes
Beans on toast
Fish fingers

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