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TW Emetaphobia - let's chat

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LouLou0505 · 16/09/2023 23:08

This might be long but I'm currently in one of my anxiety attacks and I find writing a good distraction that calms me down so feel free to join!

I'm 28 suffered with emet ever since I can remember! I can't pinpoint how it started but I'd say around 7/8 years old. Got better through teen years then picked back up!

I've not actually been 'poorly' since I was a little girl. I've got through being spiked when I was 19, an egg donation on awful medication which made my fear 100x worse, pregnancy, emergency c-section and a year and a half of motherhood so far!

I've had hypnotherapy multiple times but that didn't do anything for me because my mind doesn't switch off I just kept following the words so was a waste of money. Had private CBT and CBT through well-being and it helped a bit but not much.

Over the years I've learnt I'm fine with with people being 'poorly' as long as it's not from a bug. I've been fine with my husband being hungover, migraines, even food poisoning but if anyone mentions 'the bug' I spiral.

It's me being 'poorly' I'm afraid of. I can even talk about me being 'poorly' but when I start to feel 'poorly' I spiral so so bad!

Being a mum is so hard when it happens, luckily it only ever happens at night when my son is in bed so my distraction is gone. I dread it all the time, I often think about taking my son out of nursery because how will I cope?!

And yet I'm always thinking, I wish it would just happen so I can see how I'd react and then maybe I'll be cured!!

I used to have an awful needle phobia, but doing my egg donation that was cured straight away which was the best thing to happen!

Anyway, if there's anyone out there that wants to talk, share any helpful tips that would be great and I'd love to hear from you!

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LouLou0505 · 16/09/2023 23:09

I anyone is out there struggling, I personally find this video great. It calms me down and send me off to sleep!

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MissHoollie · 16/09/2023 23:32

Hi you have described me.
I've had it since 2005 when my eldest was a toddler and caught V and D bugs frequently from a dreadful nursery!
So I went on sertraline 2 years ago and I've found it helps a bit.
I now can go out to eat and things .
I still panic about my kids bringing back bugs from school etc but the blind panic isn't there since I started sertraline.

LouLou0505 · 16/09/2023 23:39

MissHoollie · 16/09/2023 23:32

Hi you have described me.
I've had it since 2005 when my eldest was a toddler and caught V and D bugs frequently from a dreadful nursery!
So I went on sertraline 2 years ago and I've found it helps a bit.
I now can go out to eat and things .
I still panic about my kids bringing back bugs from school etc but the blind panic isn't there since I started sertraline.

Sorry to hear you suffer too!

I was offered that in 2020 but when I read the main side effect was sickness I never took them 😂

Im glad you can go out and eat! I can now too, I never used to be able to eat past 7pm?! But sometimes if I'm in the wrong company I can be triggered by something it's so strange!

Did you do anything else to help?

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MissHoollie · 17/09/2023 18:35

Hi,
I get you completely re sertraline ..I put it off for years due to the possibility of vomiting.
I did feel nauseous but like pregnancy nausea not anything else
I hate emmetophobia but I don't think I can make very escape it .
I tend to avoid situations ... theatres and cinemas are pretty much a no go!

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