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Activities to keep me busy

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AutumnLemon · 13/09/2023 09:13

Does anyone have some ideas of some activities I can do for a period of about four weeks to keep my mind and body busy during downtime? I'm undergoing a period of anxiety (thankfully with a defined end point!), and I want some activities to keep me from getting lost in "what ifs".

Things I have so far:

  • Defrosting the freezer (exciting)
  • Gardening
  • Going for a run

Things that don't keep my mind "busy" enough:

  • Podcasts/audiobooks (though good for helping met get to sleep when anxious)
  • Housework
  • Puzzles
  • Reading

Mostly I end up scrolling on social media and it's not really helpful.

OP posts:
frozendaisy · 13/09/2023 09:17

Have a think, in 4 weeks time I would like to be better at......
Or have had a go at...........

E.g. knitting, drawing, playing the guitar, baking gateaus, cooking curry, recover the cushions, headstands, chopping wood, creative writing.

Or do a self study on I don't know Africa, the Egyptians, identifying tree species.

Gardenerboo · 13/09/2023 09:20

knitting or crochet is like finger yoga and easy to learn if you can’t already.

I hope you feel better soon.

PuttingDownRoots · 13/09/2023 09:20

Learn a language on duolingo
Learn a craft or get a small kit... lego, airfix, paint by numbers, diamond painting etc

davinasshorts · 13/09/2023 09:22

Try to do a set number of steps per day or week?

Walking with a good audio book or podcast is good for my mental health

AutumnLemon · 13/09/2023 09:59

Thank you, some lovely ideas here.

I've always been terrible at anything crafty or artistic. I do enjoy baking, but I find when I'm properly anxious I make stupid mistakes, burn myself, forget to add sugar, that sort of thing!

I do play piano, so mastering a new piece might be an idea.

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MagpiePi · 13/09/2023 10:03

Can you go round the house and make a list of things similar to defrosting the freezer? ie. all those one off jobs that aren’t day to day housework, and then do at least one a day.

Mumof1andacat · 13/09/2023 10:24

I'm not arty, but I enjoy diamond art or paint by numbers. The range has lots of choices

SallyWD · 13/09/2023 10:29

I'd start to learn a language. Duolingo is great for this.
I also find it a great distraction to go out and about and look at stuff. I had a period when I visited all the old churches in the area. Really fascinating history in each church. Or visit a local stately home? Or get a train to a nearby town and potter around, visiting the places of interest.
Do some Autumn gardening? Now's a good time to plant perennials for next year.
These are all things that relax and distract me.

Thatsmorethanhalf · 13/09/2023 10:50

Sorting your stuff out. Going into cupboards and boxes and having a good sort out. I felt much better and less anxious having done this for some reason

MagpiePi · 13/09/2023 11:48

@SallyWD

That's a good idea - being a tourist in your local area. Obviously it depends on budget but there are free things such as museums and art galleries, or guided walks either with a volunteer guide or you can download an audio guide. Eventbrite is quite good if you are looking for local activities.

AlrightThen · 18/09/2023 15:20

People watching. TV shows.
Exposing yourself to solitude in public. It can reduce the anxiety. You will realise it's just a feeling and it will end eventually.

BlueChampagne · 18/09/2023 15:24

Visit local museums
Look out for any concerts or interesting talks locally
Find out what daytime activities are on locally - local history or something like that?
Short term volunteering opportunities?

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