I'm married to my DH for 17 years. We get on great and he's a great husband but he's always so bloody negative about everything. We moved house 2 years ago and granted it was a bit of a doer upper, it was our perfect location to our families and schools etc. it's great to be able to walk everywhere as our previous house was quite rural so kids needed driven everywhere and it was a pin in the arse.
Anyway grumpy hole has just confessed that he regrets buying the house. He hates that's it isn't as modern as all our friends houses (which is true) and that it's an embarrassment. I'm of the persuasion that we will eventually be able to to the things we want but it takes time to get things the way you want them and that the location of this house and kids having lots of friends is such a massive indicator of happiness- before they never got out unless it was a planned event to cinema etc or a play date.
He's put me in such a bad form by saying it. I'm always a glass half full and see opportunities and potential in things where DH is the entire opposite. He is always negative and has something to complain about and it's really getting on my goat!!!
Anyway I don't know what I'm
Hoping to achieve others than venting