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DH went out drinking and didn't come home until 7.30am!

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andjustlikethedoorknob · 10/09/2023 21:27

I'll give the facts, I'm not sure what to believe but my gut says he's full of BS.

DH doesn't often go out out, when he does he gets very very drunk and can't normally get himself into bed. He tends to go for a couple of drinks after work but lies about that. He had a habit of telling a lot of lies but that's another story.

Saturday went out at 11.30am to go day drinking with mates.
I went to bed and woke at 5.30am to realise he wasn't back, I messaged but no response.
6.30am he read the message but didn't respond.
7.30am he arrived home, blood on his top.
Still drunk and barely eyes open.

Said he'd been drinking, came back to local pubs near our house but his mate cut his hand so he took him home in a taxi (further away from our house. 10 mins taxi drive in opposite direction)
He couldn't remember if there was anyone else in the taxi!
I asked for proof where he was and he instantly showed me texts to his friend that he'd sent at 6.30am saying thanks for letting him stay and he'd posted the key Thro his door. (6.30 was the time he read my message but didn't respond yet he text his friend who's house he was at supposedly!)

So what do you think?!

OP posts:
blackbeardsballsack · 10/09/2023 21:39

Why would he need to go back to his friend's house just because he cut his hand? It obviously wasn't bad enough to go to A&E so what use would having another man there be?

andjustlikethedoorknob · 10/09/2023 22:51

That's exactly what I said! It's a hand, not like he could walk or something.

OP posts:
GabriellaFaith · 29/09/2023 21:23

I feel cross for you!

ConnieTucker · 29/09/2023 21:28

What do I think? I think he is a liar. You know he is a liar.

where is your line?

BrownTableMat · 29/09/2023 21:31

I’m sorry, OP, but a partner regularly going on benders like that (day drinking from 11.30, coming home so drunk as to be incapable) would be a total passion and relationship killer for me, regardless of whether he got up to anything even more reprehensible last night or not.

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