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Parking... P&C if its the only space left? Do you take it?

69 replies

Certainlyreally · 10/09/2023 00:15

So just one on of many other threads on parent and child parking, and I was just thinking, would you/can you take a P&C space if its the only space left?

Do you take it?
Should you leave it?

(My dc are older, and I personally dont park in p&c spaces, even if they are the last one in the car park)

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Sometimeswinning · 10/09/2023 18:22

SurelyBassey · 10/09/2023 16:25

Of course you wouldn't, as long as you're OK it's grand
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@Gillstuck

For an imaginary parent and child who you don’t know is going to come or not you would seriously park far away from a shop? Honestly there’s thoughtful and just being stupid!

SurelyBassey · 10/09/2023 18:35

@Sometimeswinning did you even bother to read their first comment- unless they’ve edited it ???

SurelyBassey · 10/09/2023 18:38

Or added an additional comment ?

VeniVidiWeeWee · 10/09/2023 19:25

blahblahblah1654 · 10/09/2023 08:44

No. It's not illegal to do so though. So I wouldn't be crying if someone else did it.

Not illegal,but you could get a parking charge, (which is enforceable in court).

Sometimeswinning · 10/09/2023 19:28

SurelyBassey · 10/09/2023 18:35

@Sometimeswinning did you even bother to read their first comment- unless they’ve edited it ???

Yeah I agree with what they said. They would park there and wouldn’t park down the road. Unless I’ve missed something?

You wouldn’t park there because you wouldn’t want to appear selfish. I don’t agree with that.

Nemesias · 10/09/2023 19:35

Literally the last space in the car park? I’d be taking it. I’d circle the car park a few times to make sure but I wouldnt abandon my shopping trip just because of that reason - I need food too.

I would never park in a blue badge space for any reason

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 10/09/2023 19:38

Yup, I do quite often at our local leisure centre/gym.

I go at 7pm which is when the last of the swimming lessons finish. Often there is only one or two spaces left so I grab what I can.

user76541055773 · 10/09/2023 19:41

Of course not, because I’m not a selfish idiot. I’d just wait for another space.

SisterMichaelsHabit · 10/09/2023 19:45

Most supermarkets are part of a complex with other shops. I'd park in the next car park over. But literally in all my years as a driver this has never ever happened. I've had plenty of times where I can't get a space and the only ones left are the disabled spaces though. You just sort of filter them out as an option though don't you? I wish people who didn't need them for various reasons would do that a bit more with P+C ones. That's why I like car parks where the P+Cs are further away but with a safe route to the entrance. They don't need to be close to the shop.

Reugny · 10/09/2023 19:46

fairyfluf · 10/09/2023 09:25

That's worse to me. The parking for people with disabilities always needs to be kept free. Like the accessible toilets - don't use them unless you have accessibility needs.

During Covid I had to go into one of the offices and I was allocated a disabled space.

The car park only had disabled spaces plus a couple of taxi spaces being near central London.

So myself and 3 colleagues who were driving in were all allocated them. My other colleagues who were driven in separate taxis used the taxi spaces in turn.

Viewfrommyhouse · 10/09/2023 19:51

I'd be wary if the carpark was monitored/managed by a private parking company. It would depend on the signage and t&cs displayed.

Bobbybobbins · 10/09/2023 20:26

I wouldn't

ItsNotRocketSalad · 10/09/2023 20:28

Morally, I'd have zero issue taking it. I need a space near the entrance a hell of a lot more than most parents.

But I don't because I'm never sure if I can get a ticket for it or not, and being disabled (but not enough for a blue badge) is already expensive enough.

buckingmad · 10/09/2023 20:48

ItsNotRocketSalad · 10/09/2023 20:28

Morally, I'd have zero issue taking it. I need a space near the entrance a hell of a lot more than most parents.

But I don't because I'm never sure if I can get a ticket for it or not, and being disabled (but not enough for a blue badge) is already expensive enough.

Tbf I’d agree that they don’t need to be near the entrance and that’s not why I use them. I use them because they’re wider. You need that extra space for manoeuvring a toddler/car seat without hitting the car next to you.

Moving them further away would then stop the problem of entitled people using p&c spaces when they don’t have a child with them.

FlyingHighFlyingLow · 10/09/2023 20:54

I had a similar arguement with my mum today. She drove to the shops and parked in a P&C bay because I'm pregnant. I mean I'm 29 weeks and already pretty huge but didn't have a child with us. Her arguement was it was for needing the extra room, which I could do with, and finding walking more difficult and they're closer. I don't park in those bays by myself. Tbh I think she just wanted to try protect her new car 😂. Would people be mad seeing a heavily pregnant person using a P&C space?

Throwncrumbs · 10/09/2023 21:00

use it but leave your engine running while somebody goes in for you, totally acceptable… well it is for a disabled bay, don’t have a badge and are just waiting for somebody(idiot woman yesterday)

Starlightstarbright2 · 10/09/2023 21:03

fairyfluf · 10/09/2023 09:05

Yes. Though I'm more likely to turn around as the supermarket would be packed.

This was my thoughts too .. I was there at 10am this morning to avoid packed supermarkets

Pammela2 · 10/09/2023 21:04

Leave it!

Cyantist · 10/09/2023 21:13

FlyingHighFlyingLow · 10/09/2023 20:54

I had a similar arguement with my mum today. She drove to the shops and parked in a P&C bay because I'm pregnant. I mean I'm 29 weeks and already pretty huge but didn't have a child with us. Her arguement was it was for needing the extra room, which I could do with, and finding walking more difficult and they're closer. I don't park in those bays by myself. Tbh I think she just wanted to try protect her new car 😂. Would people be mad seeing a heavily pregnant person using a P&C space?

Most of the supermarkets near me specify these spaces are for people with young children or pregnant women.

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