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271726a · 09/09/2023 20:20

I'm really not happy with adult dd, a couple of years or so back my grandson was under PLO. all link to DV. Social services were looking into my background. As I would be having GS if it came to it. A few little bits came up thatcwete linked to DD father. Anyway I was a bit worried that my childhood sexual abuse may come up. I did not want her to end up readying about it so I ended up telling her.

Anyway ds was talking to me the other night abd told me to swear I won't ever say anything. So I promised. He then told me that dd has told him that I was SA as a kid.
I'm really annoyed with her . I don't understand why she would tell him such a thing with how his mental health and vulnerability had been. Kind of my fault for telling her I guess.

On a positive note ds has been ok for a couple of days few hic cups
But come under the normal teenage bracket. We have all been in the pool today which everyone enjoyed.. and we had music on and ds was trying to get me to reach heigh notes. Poor neighbours 🤣 oh and ds removed a unit in my kitchen removed fridge/freezer for me and fitted all my new one.

I know the post is a bit odd. But I want to try and add positives.

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LuvMyBoyz · 09/09/2023 20:24

You do right to balance the bad with the good. Balancing these is the way to go.

CalistoNoSolo · 09/09/2023 20:30

Do you think maybe your DD told your DS so that DS was a bit kinder to you? I understand that you feel it was a betrayal of trust, but perhaps her intentions were good?

271726a · 09/09/2023 21:17

CalistoNoSolo · 09/09/2023 20:30

Do you think maybe your DD told your DS so that DS was a bit kinder to you? I understand that you feel it was a betrayal of trust, but perhaps her intentions were good?

I'm not worried about betrayal of trust. It's just ds has been struggling so much . It may have been to much for him to take on.

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271726a · 09/09/2023 21:37

LuvMyBoyz · 09/09/2023 20:24

You do right to balance the bad with the good. Balancing these is the way to go.

I think so . I Need to try and balance it. So it does not feel to hopeless

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