Not really any of my business but I am involved on the perifory.
So man, 53 was invited by woman 41 to be plus one at a midweek wedding 5 hours from home, involving 2 nights in a hotel. Both these people are good friends of mine, I know them separately, they know each other through me. He was "chosen" as plus on because frankly at our ages there aren't that many single friends who will take 3 days off work to go to the wedding of someone they don't know.
Anyway, they were just friends, it's all very platonic. It looks like they had a lovely time, she looked beautiful at the wedding, he scrubbed up well too, they did the tourist thing while they were away. She's told me he was a perfect gentleman the whole time.
However, I've also spent a weekend with him on a "platonic" basis. We were away as a group with odd number of m/f and as the only people without partners at home, we shared a room. He was indeed lovely and respectful, but it wasn't strictly platonic!
He and I have put that to bed ages ago and if they are getting together I'd be thrilled for them. However, I know she has had a thing for another man in our group and if she's moved on from that, I'd be quite interested in him 😆 So did they have a perfect coupley weekend on a strictly platonic basis?