I guess I am objectively pretty-ish or can be, my nose is a bit to big to be really pretty and I've always been a 12 -14 so bit too big to really catch most men's eye. However since I've been 13 I've always had at least one or two guys interested in me and I've very rarely not had a boyfriend or at least the option of one since that time.
However I would say 9 times out of 10 the guy I really liked just didn't like me back or at best would date me until something better came along. The one time the guy I really liked did like me back, well he is now my husband.
Looking back I tend to think of myself as a bit of a reject and ugly duckling while I forget all the men I rejected or turned down because Adam told me he didn't fancy me or because James dumped me for someone prettier and slimmer.
I am just curious is this kind of normal and how it is for most women that while you can get a boyfriend when single its much harder to get the one you actually want? Is it normal or was I just going after guys out of my league ( I don't think so) or somehow seeking out rejection?