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what did you used to buy that you now realise is a waste of money?

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overdrawn · 05/09/2023 10:49

I’m trying to sort out a credit card debt and reduce my spending so wanted to ask what are things you used to spend money on that you’ve realised aren’t worth it?

For some reason, I used to buy the expensive Brabantia bin bags (I have no idea why!) and a few months ago realised it was a complete waste of money and now buy regular black bin bags.

I also bought a home gel nails kit and do my own manicures / pedicures (I did lots of research and bought a good brand, and follow all the advice) They look just as good (if not better) than what I was getting in an average salon and the cost per manicure is much less.

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FunnysInLaJardin · 05/09/2023 16:05

RunAwayTurnAwayRunAwayTurnAway · 05/09/2023 15:44

Can @Trisolaris and @FunnysInLaJardin recommend any brands of henna please?

I buy the ready made tubes from Amazon, no particular brand.

They are supposed to be used for tattoos but are fine for hair and far less mess that the power which I used to use.

I have quite short hair and use about 5 little tubes per time.

weirdoboelady · 05/09/2023 16:06

A storage unit. (Well, to be honest, we're still paying until the end of this month).

Adopted some (horribly many) years ago in a rush when we had to clear the house for builders. Anyone remember that sketch about the freezer of doom, where you dreaded finding out what was actually in there? It's been horribly like that. Apparently I have been paying to store baked beans and a whole unit (6 jars) of El Paso salsa, among other things. I have no recollection of the latter ever being in my life.

Among other comedy discoveries in this story was the fact that moving to a smaller unit will cost us MORE than the iniquitous £2k a year they were now proposing to charge us - apparently we were saving loads of money by being long standing customers.

overdrawn · 05/09/2023 16:06

@Raggammuffin I cringe to think how much I've spent on makeup over the years... it would all come in handy right about now, and I don't exactly have anything to show for the makeup I bought with the money!

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Switcher · 05/09/2023 16:07

anotherside · 05/09/2023 15:49

Not really a regular thing, but I don’t tip quite as much as I used to. Say a meal for a few people comes to £100, and the food + service is reasonably good (but pretty standard) then I think a £5 tip is perfectly adequate as a gesture of appreciation. I’d only do 10%+ if the experience was outstanding. It’s just over the top putting £10-20 on the table for basic service IMO.

If it makes you feel better, that is the standard MO in Germany. If you have a 3.50 euro coffee, you pay 4 euros, but if you're paying 152 euros you just say 160. I did very well from waitressing in the holidays.

Truecrime · 05/09/2023 16:08

@Trisolaris Is Henna good coverage for greys though ?

mathanxiety · 05/09/2023 16:09

@overdrawn

YY to the moka pot. If you see coffee on sale, buy two. It keeps in the freezer. Don't forget you have it!!

Take the time to make a thorough list before you go shopping, if you go in person to the supermarket. Never attempt to wing it.

userxx · 05/09/2023 16:11

JustFrustrated · 05/09/2023 14:26

Hard disagree on the PP with toothpaste.

Mine is £10 and the difference is noticeable already. In every way.

DH and the kids get big standard Colgate, I get the £10 one.

Which toothpaste please?

overdrawn · 05/09/2023 16:12

I agree with the PP who said mouthwash actually (unless you have gum issues like another PP pointed out). I finally invested in a good electric toothbrush and now don't need to buy all the other dental stuff I was buying.

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Mooshroo · 05/09/2023 16:12

A cup of tea at a coffee shop! It’s just a teabag water and a bit of milk but the price is almost as high as a fancy coffee. I don’t like coffee so my options are now limited 😅

digg1980 · 05/09/2023 16:14

Highest TV subscription where I have barely watched any of those channels anymore. It seems I am mostly using streaming services lately and at a fraction of the cost of the TV originally sold by our local telco. Bye Bye TV Subscription :).

Harryyourenogoodalone · 05/09/2023 16:15

Takeaways
Lunches
New cars
Gym membership and classes , I run instead
Flowers
Eating out in restaurants
Expensive make up
Magazines
Non essential clothes (not perfect on this)
Coffee from Starbucks etc. It's a rare treat not an essential.

WFH really helps with the food and takeaways,no commute, much less need for expensive clothes and I have more time to exercise cheaply plus shower here before work.

postingandtoasting · 05/09/2023 16:22

I can't believe I used to buy that fragrant water that you can put in your iron. For years. Also nappy bins. My goodness the refills were extortionate.

D1nopawus · 05/09/2023 16:23

Handbags. Barely use them now I use Apple Pay & an app for store cards.

Phone / keys / tissue / shopping bag. My life is so exciting. Grin

Charlize43 · 05/09/2023 16:23

Ridiculously overpriced Farrow and Ball paint which can be colour matched at B&Q for a fraction of the price.

New clothes. I started buying clothes in charity shops but snobbishly only those that were designer brands or couture. My wardrobe now is better than before as I live / work near wealthy areas. Never thought I'd one day own Prada, Dior or Chanel. I tend to look for classic pieces rather than fashion ones. I'm 56, so although my tweed Chanel suit looks dated, I feel as I'm old it is excuseable. I love vintage chiffon dresses as well. Anything black or Navy.

I entertain a lot and have started buying supermarket brand vodka & rum and decanting it into my Smirnoff and Flor de Cana bottles. I'm still waiting for someone to notice and ask me about it...

CoffeeLover90 · 05/09/2023 16:23

Candles - I had so many at one point, stored in a sideboard, couldn't fit anything else in. I'd clean the woodwork weekly and it was covered in soot 😂
Tools - that was the ex really. 1000s worth, half I gave away
Bath bombs- £5 per bath, two sometimes three times a week. Madness.
Takeaways- I dread to think how much has been spent over the years. I only gave them up around 2 months ago.
TV/movie subscriptions
Bus fare
Hair dye

Sillymummies123 · 05/09/2023 16:24

Vitamins / nutritional supplements.

They're one of millions of chemicals you get from the actual food source and study after study shows that they're not utilised in the same way when isolated. Some of the vitamin B supplements are actually potentially harmful as shown in some fairly rigorous studies (long term data shows increased risk of heart disease after obvious health factors are accounted for).

HootyMcBooby76 · 05/09/2023 16:24

Lush bath bombs.
They used to be (somewhat) affordable at £3 ish each or thereabouts, they are now astronomical at about £6 average and some even £7 or £8.

It's LITERALLY money down the drain.

It's a shame because no other brand seems to smell as nice with the range of scents. I like them but there is no way I'm spending about £6 per bath to literally flush money down the plughole.

I now buy a litre bottle of sweet almond oil on Amazon, add a few drops of essential oil (orange or lavender etc) and use this in the bath. Just as nice (well, almost) and very cheap.

FlorencenotRatchet · 05/09/2023 16:27

TheShellBeach · 05/09/2023 13:56

Washing capsules/tablets/liquid.

All these products start off life as ordinary washing powder and have to be made from it, so they cost a lot more, and the ordinary washing powder does the same job and costs a lot less. The boxes and packaging for all these things are also very bad for the environment.

Actually I've just discovered detergent sheets - much better for the planet because almost no packaging. And you can store them in a small space.

Same here. It's been a revelation. I had to try a few brands to find the ones I liked/worked the best. I'm using Dr Beckmann.

EffortlessDesmond · 05/09/2023 16:28

Never go shopping on an empty stomach, particularly for food.

overdrawn · 05/09/2023 16:31

FlorencenotRatchet · 05/09/2023 16:27

Same here. It's been a revelation. I had to try a few brands to find the ones I liked/worked the best. I'm using Dr Beckmann.

This is good to know! I'll look into it

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Weightinggame · 05/09/2023 16:34

Subscriptions. I used to have a beauty one and a perfume one and just ended up accumulating things I didn't use often. Better to spend the money on items I like. Only subscription is Netflix.

BT TV or Sky - just basic free view now and we use the Smart TV app to watch I player and Netflix.

Nails and eyelashes. Nice to have but really adds up.

hylian · 05/09/2023 16:35

I entertain a lot and have started buying supermarket brand vodka & rum and decanting it into my Smirnoff and Flor de Cana bottles. I'm still waiting for someone to notice and ask me about it...

@Charlize43 I would definitely notice this but wouldn't dream of saying anything! Just as a heads up... your guests are probably polite! ;)

Lovemycat2023 · 05/09/2023 16:37

postingandtoasting · 05/09/2023 16:22

I can't believe I used to buy that fragrant water that you can put in your iron. For years. Also nappy bins. My goodness the refills were extortionate.

I used the buy the fragrant water too because we have awfully hard water. Until I realised I could just buy bottled water in it.

Seaswimmer23 · 05/09/2023 16:37

Fancy colourful underwear. Now all my underwear is plain and black, and I wear bralets rather than damned underwire itchy lacy bras. Also, I always buy in sales/on offer.

Lovesittinginthegarden · 05/09/2023 16:38

Jackienory please don't give up union subs, you nevrer know when you might need them to have your back and provide legal support.