I had a interview so asked Pil if they could take my dd for a eye test as she has been having migraines etc.
It was all booked but 2nd interview came up after I left my job for medical reasons , I am ok I’ve had a my results and got the job.
During this time I previously had to cancel the dd eye test appointment as my elderly father ended up in hospital twice after having a fall.
So they took dd to the opticians and he started to be racist about someone in there , he has form of this my dd gave him a look as did mil.
Mil said well I can see why me don’t want to do this and she was still there after 30 minutes in the opticians which I understand , wish I never asked .
He then said well she is at home drinking wine at 12.30 to which my dd looked at him and mil gave him a look .
For what it is worth I do like a glass of wine as does his son a beer but I would never drink at 12.30 in the day and he said this infront of my dd .
The granddaughters don’t like him when we are with him they don’t engage or sit far from him because he is racist and rude and it’s loud and always in public.
After my interview he then came back with mil and I asked her how it went she was about to tell me when he said very slowly what I should do how to deal with my dd on how to go collect her glasses ? Being patronising.
He constantly puts me down behind my back and the digs I get, and I were also talking about my son for something I was not sure if he would be entitled to he then went on to say I did not know what I was talking about etc
So I lost my temper and said I’m fed up with you thinking your always right never listening to anyone else and talking to me like this.
My dp said I was rude to his dad and i said so were you both to me and you took his side . He’s a racist and bully and I’m done .
Pil came over the next day I went out because I’m pretty mad , say what you want about me just don’t say bad things in front of my dd .
I also said I will never ask them for help again to dp because he always judges me no matter if I work , have a drink , see friends etc.