My 2 children go to their dad's every other weekend. They are age 7&8. They often spend time with their nephew who is 11. Recently the 11 year old nephew has been bullying my 7 &8 year old. My childrens dad Said hes going to tell the nephews mum. (His daughter) (My ex is the nephews grandad)
My children's father and his mum. ( the children's nan/great nan. And the nephews dad grandad. We're going on about how they hate the 11 year old. They say that he's a nasty shit. And he's very fake. They love him because hes their grandchild/great grandchild. But they don't like him.
In the past there have been family fall outs and its always his adult daughter that's the problem. He slags her of to me what she's done sounds awful. But he tells half a story making her seem really bad. Later on bits slip out that were left of, that other members of the family had said. So he's made her seem really bad when actually other people had a part to play.
I just don't understand why somone would want to make their adult child seem like a bad person when they are not. And say they hate their grandchild.
Note: I have written this already this evening. People could not understand what I was trying to say. I'm not sure if this is any better. I have asked for the other thread to be removed.