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Can you tell where someone is from from how they write on MN?

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Theystoleourrecipe · 02/09/2023 08:41

I've noticed that when going through posts, I'll read something and think, 'oh this person is from x, just by the words and phrases they use. I'll sometimes be able to localise this to a more specific region. I never look at usernames when I'm reading unless something really stands out to me, so I generally don't have any prior knowledge of the poster influencing me. Of course I can't be 100% sure but I would put a bet on being right, most of the time.

Do you ever recognise a particular region through how a poster writes? Are you conscious of how you write, making sure not to use colloquialisms unique to your area or do you not think about it, or do it anyway?

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DinnaeFashYersel · 02/09/2023 13:03

I can usually spot fellow Scots. We use lots of different words and names for things.

Catsmere · 02/09/2023 13:05

ButterRoad · 02/09/2023 12:59

i don’t know Australian English at all, but in English English, you ‘bring’ something from there to here, and ‘take’ somewhere from there to here — it’s the direction of the movement of the object in relation to where the speaker is that determines the verb. In Hiberno-English, there isn’t that distinction.

Thank you, that's interesting - I didn't know about the regional distinction, and am now going to puzzle over just how I use them except the obvious "take it there" or "bring it here"! 😄

gabbyaggy · 02/09/2023 13:05

It appears RP is a means to separate us from them, Stanley Johnson asking if the English public could spell pinnochio. I love regional accents, surely everyone has a regional accent it's cultural and lovely.

CaptainMyCaptain · 02/09/2023 13:10

As I posted above I have moved around a lot and people are generally unable to identify my accent. I went to grammar school in the South East in the 60s and my (northern working class ) parents read a lot hence the SE. I certainly don't have a cut glass RP accent but people usually think I'm 'Southern' although I have lived more than half my life in the North now.

DinnaeFashYersel · 02/09/2023 13:11

LadyBird1973 · 02/09/2023 11:41

Just because something is widely used, that doesn't make it correct or acceptable. 'Hospickle' makes me want to stab the speaker. I appreciate that this is an extreme reaction Grin.
I also really dislike it then people leave out the connecting words - it's so lazy to say "needs washed" instead of "needs to be washed". If someone truly CBA to add in two words, why can't they just say "needs washing"?

Some of these words aren't as identifying as we think they are - people in Wales say 'lush', 'bap' and 'dap' too. Any 'aye' come to think of it.

Posts like this make me want to stab the eejit lecturering others on correct and acceptable language.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 02/09/2023 13:17

UnctuousUnicorns · 02/09/2023 10:43

PS can (not may) I add nesh to the list, or does that also define me as old?

I grew up with the word nesh - my mum used it regularly. Nobody else around me knew what I meant, but I now live in an area where it's in common usage!Smile

FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper · 02/09/2023 13:19

I’m from Derbyshire and know straight away that there is another midlander here by eating a cob.. so hello all midlander’s, I’m currently eating a bacon cob as we speak

Ay up, duck - can't beat a fresh cob from Bird's!

FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper · 02/09/2023 13:26

More Scottish identifiers I notice on here:
Chap on the door (knock)
Jag (jab - injection)
Sausage/Chicken/Fish Supper (named food item with chips)

On the other hand, I've seen people on here referring to their 'paycheck'; then, when people try to give financial advice or empathy, but apologise as they don't know if the situation is the same in the USA as in the UK, the bemused OP will ask "What makes you think I'm American?"

Slightly off-topic, but there was a thread on here the other week about 'non-ironers' - those who don't press their clothes before wearing them - and I just couldn't get it out of my head that they were actually talking about people from Northern Ireland Grin

TheLongGloriesOfTheWinterMoon · 02/09/2023 13:31

FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper · 02/09/2023 13:19

I’m from Derbyshire and know straight away that there is another midlander here by eating a cob.. so hello all midlander’s, I’m currently eating a bacon cob as we speak

Ay up, duck - can't beat a fresh cob from Bird's!

Bird's cake shop?
Only if they've some sausage rolls and pork pie left. But it's Saturday afternoon. They'll have washed their shelves and shut up shop hours ago.

I'll gutta Trent if they've any cobs left at this hour.

FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper · 02/09/2023 13:31

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Can you tell where someone is from from how they write on MN?
Can you tell where someone is from from how they write on MN?
TheLongGloriesOfTheWinterMoon · 02/09/2023 13:33

gabbyaggy · 02/09/2023 13:05

It appears RP is a means to separate us from them, Stanley Johnson asking if the English public could spell pinnochio. I love regional accents, surely everyone has a regional accent it's cultural and lovely.

Historically, that's definitely what it was.
There's a good summary of the use of RP by (the God of all linguists) David Crystal. I'll see if I can find it.

(David, being of course, far more interested in the whys, whens, and hows than the rights and wrongs...)

Autieangel · 02/09/2023 13:40

Thas kiddin aren't tha? Y carnt tell where am from from a bit er writing like.

Crikeyalmighty · 02/09/2023 13:54

@MrsMoastyToasty that be Bristol- but I've heard similar here in Bath- along with ' thank eee drive' to bus drivers when getting off the bus

UnctuousUnicorns · 02/09/2023 14:02

IHateWasps · 02/09/2023 12:05

You can also get a poke of chips.

Aye, as in pig in a poke i.e. bag.

UnctuousUnicorns · 02/09/2023 14:06

Btw mine's a cheese savoury batch ta, and yes, I must dig out DD's pumps for gym next Tuesday.

Theystoleourrecipe · 02/09/2023 14:18

Slightly off-topic, but there was a thread on here the other week about 'non-ironers' - those who don't press their clothes before wearing them - and I just couldn't get it out of my head that they were actually talking about people from Northern Ireland

Me! Too!

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Ineedwinenow · 02/09/2023 15:04

TheLongGloriesOfTheWinterMoon · 02/09/2023 13:31

Bird's cake shop?
Only if they've some sausage rolls and pork pie left. But it's Saturday afternoon. They'll have washed their shelves and shut up shop hours ago.

I'll gutta Trent if they've any cobs left at this hour.

Oooohh birds! I’d sell my soul for their lamb and mint slices and cream cakes!

EmmaPaella · 02/09/2023 15:05

MrsMoastyToasty · 02/09/2023 10:48

If I said " I put my gurt lush daps on, went down the slider and scraged my knee " you might be able to work out which city I'm from.

I bet you also went to Tescos! Or perhaps Asdls.

FinnRussell · 02/09/2023 15:13

I can always tell if posters are English when they say words rhyme and they don't to a person who pronounces their r's

upinaballoon · 02/09/2023 15:18

UnctuousUnicorns · 02/09/2023 10:43

PS can (not may) I add nesh to the list, or does that also define me as old?

I didn't know 'nesh' but I learned it from my friend's Mum. Lancashire.

I knew a Yorkshire woman who used the word 'fetch' more or less in the same way that I would use 'bring'.

Oioicaptain · 02/09/2023 15:29

Ah can't seh 'a' i've ivva noticed ta be 'onest. ah thowt most wor posh jessies due ta thea lack o' common sense.

watcherintherye · 02/09/2023 15:32

tuvamoodyson · 02/09/2023 12:37

I’m Scottish, ‘this needs washed’ is exactly what I say. I said ‘I’m away to bed’ to an English friend and she’d never heard that before, is that particularly Scottish?

My Dad was Scottish and I have Scottish relatives (Ayrshire). He always used to say “I’ll away to ma bed”! Also “does that need cleaned/polished/washed?” and “D’ye ken… ?” My Aunties used to use “outwith”, but I’m not sure now of the context, and also “forbye”, meaning as well as, I think! They used to call me ‘hen’.

My Mum was from the Black Country, and used ‘cut’ for canal, ‘entry’ for a passage between houses. She also remembered her Gran saying “up the suff (chimney?) and down the sinkhole”, (but I now have no idea of the context!) and ‘I’ll go to the foot of our stairs!’ if surprised.
I love dialect and regional differences in language so much. Doesn’t it make life richer?

feralunderclass · 02/09/2023 16:06

DownNative · 02/09/2023 12:03

How about the term "poke"?

Not the standard definition, obviously!

When my Scottish born daughter was wee, my Northern Irish mother asked her "do you want a poke?".

My poor daughter was so confused she looked to me, so I said "Nanny's asking if you want an ice cream".

So, poke means ice cream.

Believe it has a different meaning in south west Scotland.

We went on holiday to Scotland when I was about 10. I couldn't understand why the shopkeeper looked horrified when I asked him how much a poke was...