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Why do I hate everyone?!

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MagnesiumRay · 31/08/2023 13:37

I gave birth to my first child just over 5 months ago and I’ve been finding myself extremely irritable, with feelings of hatred and rage bubbling up over things that just aren’t a big deal. None of this is directed towards my son, I have a great bond with him and just wish it could be me and him left alone in the world some days. Examples of rage-inducing events are things that would be normally considered by me as minor irritations and usually when out and about, such as bad driving, people getting in my way, a stranger being a bit ‘off’ or making a slightly irritating comment - I sometimes feel like I actually hate them. I’ve managed to contain it and not have a public outburst but my mind will keep churning over these things for ages and it takes a lot of work to calm myself down.

At the point now where I dread going out into public because it’s inevitable that these feelings will crop up. Is this normal?!

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Kpo58 · 31/08/2023 13:41

Are you sleep deprived/hungry? That can induce rage with the outside world.

Embarrassednamechangeadoddle · 31/08/2023 13:41

I had rage moments when my daughter was a baby. I did have Post natal depression though and a severe lack of sleep. So I attributed mine to that.

MagnesiumRay · 01/09/2023 11:37

I’m not hugely sleep deprived as he’s a decent sleeper (at the moment!), although a decent sleep with a young child is different to a decent sleep pre-child 😅

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BarrelOfOtters · 01/09/2023 11:38

Hormones...I would expect. Can you chat to Nurse or GP...just to pick it up in case it gets worse.

DustyLee123 · 01/09/2023 11:39

Hormones, plus getting older

MagnesiumRay · 01/09/2023 11:41

reckon it could still be hormones 5 months post partum?

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