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The pap photos of Kanye and his wife in Italy

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RudsyFarmer · 28/08/2023 10:48

Has anyone seen these over the last few weeks and wondered if everything is okay? I know he has bipolar and doesn’t like to always take his medicine due to how it makes him feel, but these photos just make me wonder if the wife is okay primarily and if he needs an intervention.

For those who haven’t seen any photos she is wearing the kind of outfits that he encouraged his ex wife to wear, but all the time. No underwear, nude coloured cat suit so she looks naked (contrary to the local laws) and the same pair of white stilettos every day. He is often barefoot walking around in the street with her.

I don’t know. It just seems worrisome to me.

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BashCandicoot · 30/08/2023 10:40

I don’t get why people assume she’s unhappy or controlled. You get into a relationship with KW you know EXACTLY what to expect. It’s not like she’s stuck in a council flat with no money to escape.

I would bet she knows exactly what she’s doing and why. Why do we always assume women are poor little fragile flowers?

35965a · 30/08/2023 10:42

BashCandicoot · 30/08/2023 10:40

I don’t get why people assume she’s unhappy or controlled. You get into a relationship with KW you know EXACTLY what to expect. It’s not like she’s stuck in a council flat with no money to escape.

I would bet she knows exactly what she’s doing and why. Why do we always assume women are poor little fragile flowers?

I think in this case it’s just how his wife (Bianca I think her name is) looks. She looks sad, miserable and her eyes look totally empty. I find it worrying.

Bouledeneige · 30/08/2023 11:22

BashCandicoot · 30/08/2023 10:40

I don’t get why people assume she’s unhappy or controlled. You get into a relationship with KW you know EXACTLY what to expect. It’s not like she’s stuck in a council flat with no money to escape.

I would bet she knows exactly what she’s doing and why. Why do we always assume women are poor little fragile flowers?

But we also know that what ever draws people into relationships - love bombing, excitement, glamour - - relationships can change and become abusive and controlling. Relationships that start off unequal and unbalanced in status would seem especially vulnerable, And for many of us just looking at the pictures and based on well documented information about his previous relationships it's hard not to identify a deeply worrying pattern of behaviour. Kim Kardashian clearly had a lot of agency and independence that other partners might not and clearly the behaviour we are seeing played out looks unequal and dominating. It's hard then to assume she is an equal party to the relationship and has equal choice and control. Does it look like that to most of us? Definitely not. It's reminding me of R Kelly.....

loislovesstewie · 30/08/2023 12:01

If she is so happy with what she is wearing, why is she constantly trying to cover her breasts with her arms or another item? Sorry, but I think she feels mortified, but can't get out.

Bouledeneige · 30/08/2023 12:03

loislovesstewie · 30/08/2023 12:01

If she is so happy with what she is wearing, why is she constantly trying to cover her breasts with her arms or another item? Sorry, but I think she feels mortified, but can't get out.

Totally agree

longwayoff · 30/08/2023 12:12

He's a woman hater and that's well known and evidenced by his behaviour over the years. I hope she gets out. He should be arrested, detained and forcibly medicated if necessary.

saffronsoup · 30/08/2023 12:31

She is an adult with free will who can choose to be with Kanye or to not be with Kanye. She is an educated professional who gets to make good and bad decisinos just like everyone else. She clearly still feels the perks of the lifestyle with Kanye are worth the public embarrassment of Kanye.

Wiii · 30/08/2023 12:34

RudsyFarmer · 30/08/2023 09:05

Also just imagine how his ex wife must be feeling. He is parading a woman that looks an awful lot like her in the outfits that he used to encourage (force) her so wear. For many people they might be assuming it’s the ex wife in a boat giving oral sex. It’s almost a deep fake in real life. I wonder if he’s done that on purpose?

Nah. Anyone who knows who he is knows he's not married to Kim now.

Whatsmyusername1235 · 30/08/2023 12:43

I’ve googled the pictures after this thread. It looks very obvious that she is giving him a blowjob 🤢
Im surprised they weren’t arrested

tiggergoesbounce · 30/08/2023 12:49

From what i have heard and seen, i dont like Kayne one bit. He is full of his own importance and never gets told no. He does not respect the women who he is with.

It is well documented his is an umwell man, and he does not like taling his meds. This is understandable as they stop you feeling like yourself or stop you feeling at all in some cases, but he needs to take them if he is to function well in society.

I dont see any photographs of her naked or of her performing a sex act. She looks like she has a top on in some of the photos and in other there is not enough of her in view to say shes doesn't. Yes, she is sitting on the floor in between his legs, but i dont see any sexually explicit images, it's not like it's a full on sex video.

They will do anything for attention and its worked.

saffronsoup · 30/08/2023 12:52

Wiii · 30/08/2023 12:34

Nah. Anyone who knows who he is knows he's not married to Kim now.

Kim's fame came from a sex tape so I don't think she would care about public exposure. She also frequently wears next to no clothes.

Bianca worked for Yeezy for a couple years before she started dating him. She knew what he was like - and she decided she wanted this.

viques · 30/08/2023 13:00

He appears to be coercive and controlling with all the women he associates with. I hate the way he parades them in public as though they are pets he has picked up from the shelter and taken to the groomers to be presented as he wants. I assume , though it makes me shudder , that he has a wide following of men who admire him and think that what he does and how he behaves is something to be emulated.

SleepingStandingUp · 30/08/2023 13:05

saffronsoup · 29/08/2023 13:31

Usually there is a push back on here about policing what women wear and the less you wear the more empowered you are. So a bit strange to now have modesty being important to posters!

I have no idea what this woman wore three years ago say, before she dating Ye but it does seem likely, from what Kin said and the last gf, that her dressing like this is for him and conditional to their relationship. That's the biggest issie

RudsyFarmer · 30/08/2023 13:05

I’ve only just remembered what he did with Amber Rose as well. Look up some her interviews. She’s kept a very dignified silence mainly but I wonder if she’ll start to speak up a little more as this unravels.

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NutellaEllaElla · 30/08/2023 13:05

I don't assume that she is at all privileged and there under her own free will actually. I too am concerned for her and appalled at the disgusting, low rent sex show circus they are parading

viques · 30/08/2023 13:07

saffronsoup · 30/08/2023 12:31

She is an adult with free will who can choose to be with Kanye or to not be with Kanye. She is an educated professional who gets to make good and bad decisinos just like everyone else. She clearly still feels the perks of the lifestyle with Kanye are worth the public embarrassment of Kanye.

It is not public embarrassment, it is public humiliation. It is a man saying to a woman, I am so much more powerful than you that I can make you do things in public that demean you, dehumanise you and emphasise your subservience.

It is exactly the sort of relationship that I imagine slaves and slave owners had.

saffronsoup · 30/08/2023 13:10

viques · 30/08/2023 13:07

It is not public embarrassment, it is public humiliation. It is a man saying to a woman, I am so much more powerful than you that I can make you do things in public that demean you, dehumanise you and emphasise your subservience.

It is exactly the sort of relationship that I imagine slaves and slave owners had.

There is no evidence he is making her do anything against her will. She is a willing volunteer who has chosen this. Who knows that goes on in their relationship but of all the men out there, she got to know Kanye and then thought, yep, this is what I want right now. She could leave the relationship if she no longer wants this but I am guessing the perks outweigh the bad. Maybe she is into humilation kink who knows. Maybe she is making him bare his ass in public. Who knows.

saffronsoup · 30/08/2023 13:12

He is the one with the known mental illness and a related lack of competence - he is being taken advantage of as much as anyone given his mental state.

Qilin · 30/08/2023 13:24

There are also two other people on that boat - the pilot/skipper and also another woman. She apparently spent her time mainly next to the man piloting the boat - I'm not surprised!

SleepingStandingUp · 30/08/2023 15:18

Struggling to feel much sympaty tbh. There's nothing to suggest this intelligent woman who worked at least around him prior to this relationship, who has full access to the same media as us, is in this relationship against her will. She's entitled to make stupid decisions and love with the consequences.
He doesn't seem to have been this bad when he got with Kim, then they had kid after kid, a show, the brand. Much harder to walk away but she's done it.

Looks like these two aren't even legally married.

Same goes for the ex too. They'd been together no time at all and he demanded she change her entire style and she agreed.

Janieforever · 30/08/2023 15:48

saffronsoup · 30/08/2023 13:12

He is the one with the known mental illness and a related lack of competence - he is being taken advantage of as much as anyone given his mental state.

This is a fact being overlooked a lot. I understand it was one of the reasons Kim got out as he deteriorated . Bianca will have known what she was getting involved in. I mean Christ we don’t even know him and we knew.

Why she has chosen this none of us know. But it was a choice. Right now there is nothing to suggest she isn’t doing this for any other reason than she wishes to. Everything else is speculation due to its abhorrence and it going against everything we know or understand.

however factually from what we know, he’s the one who needs protecting right now as he is not in control of himself.

HoliHormonalTigerLillyTheSecond · 30/08/2023 20:46

viques · 30/08/2023 13:00

He appears to be coercive and controlling with all the women he associates with. I hate the way he parades them in public as though they are pets he has picked up from the shelter and taken to the groomers to be presented as he wants. I assume , though it makes me shudder , that he has a wide following of men who admire him and think that what he does and how he behaves is something to be emulated.

Yep. Gross.

AngeloMysterioso · 30/08/2023 21:16

Kim knew he was an unstable, misogynistic, egomaniacal piece of s**t where when she married him. She just didn’t care as long as she was getting Met Gala invitations and Vogue covers and he was directing his foul abuse at other women. In fact she actively participated in his disgusting harassment of Taylor Swift zero, and seemed to think it was all jolly good fun. Only once he starting treating her the same way did it become a problem, and by then she had the A-list access she had been craving all along and didn’t need him anymore. It’s great that she’s shielding her kids but that’s the bare minimum any mother in her position should be doing.

FictionalCharacter · 30/08/2023 21:23

viques · 30/08/2023 13:07

It is not public embarrassment, it is public humiliation. It is a man saying to a woman, I am so much more powerful than you that I can make you do things in public that demean you, dehumanise you and emphasise your subservience.

It is exactly the sort of relationship that I imagine slaves and slave owners had.

Exactly this. And he’s making sure everyone else knows.

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