Hi. I wasn’t sure where best to put this but will try here first for a wider audience. My DS has never been particularly academic. He was diagnosed late (year 10) as dyslexic and so struggled in some regards but was always supported and encouraged hugely with his studies at home and did well in his GCSEs. It’s worth saying here we adopted DS and for us his well-being and mental health were paramount growing up-we just wanted him to be happy and settled and do his best. We were therefore over the moon with both his relaxed but hard-working approach to his exams, especially after covid, and with his results. He was certain he didn’t want to do A levels which was absolutely fine by us, and reluctantly (because he couldn’t think of anything else) applied to do an engineering course. When we went to enrol, the people who ran the course said they had never had anyone with such high results doing the course, which whilst it was great to hear, made DS (and us a little) worry that it wouldn’t be the right course for him after all.
We had to have a rethink and literally walked out of the college to chat it over in a café. Before we got there, DS said ‘There is this other course I would LOVE to do mum’, and described a Level 3 extended diploma in the nearest city. He had taken up DJing over the last couple of years and was loving it. He phoned the college, we went that afternoon and he enrolled. He absolutely loves it and is thriving! He won and award for the ‘shining star’ of the course and got his official year one result last week-distinction star! I didn’t even know that was a thing! I’m so so proud of him but the problem is, he has no idea what to do next and I have no idea how to advise him! I only know academic routes really so want to advise him correctly but don’t know how. College isn’t great with careers advice really!
So what can/ should he do with a (hopefully really good grade in) Level 3 extended diploma in Music production? He is currently doing some DJing on the side and running some events of his own. He’d love to do something related but also knows he needs to have a career with prospects. Does he need to go to uni? Should he go to uni with those grades even though he doesn’t know what to study? Should he study music production at uni? Would it get Jim any further? What are his career options with/without uni for this course?
If he were to move away from music (but of course continue it himself), he would be interested in a trade I think.
I just don’t know how to advise him or where to send him for advice. Anyone? Thank you so much in advance!