just been having a terrible time recently
so not to drip feed started a new job dmil passed away the day before i started was there around 10 months easy job low level bullying only one not on the group chat if something was wrong like wrong paper in the printer it was always down to me etc. lots of personal disasters friend lost her son unexpectedly best friends dh diagnosed with a brain tumour other friends dh diagnosed with prostrate and bone cancer
dm 83 also had a flood in December and no kitchen until last week so that has been a nightmare
so applied for and got an more interesting job slightly more money a fresh start I thought except while working my notice dh brother died unexpectedly we had to switch off his life support and my friends husband with the brain tumour died the same day their funerals were the week before i started my new job since starting dd boyfriend mum developed a blood clot and the died her funeral was last week dh cousin was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer given weeks to live despite seeing 4 different doctors she passed away yesterday. Had to have Dcat pts last week ddog isn’t well tests came back clear so being tested on Monday for cushings disease. My friends dog went missing today and has been found dead
and if you have managed to read this far it has come to light my dsis who has always been financially reckless always borrowed money of dm imo has been stealing money from her. Dm wasn’t getting her bank statements so I took her to the bank literally passed the statements to her didn’t see them. Cashier confirmed statements had been turned to electronically sent I knew dsis had dm banking app. Dm by her own accord came to me dsis had taken £6k in transfers and bought a £4k gazebo she had no knowledge off I advised her to speak to dsis but as it came about by dsis mithering about power of attorney documents and I found out it’s only dsis as power of attorney we should get it changed to both dm agreed until she spoke to dsis who then called a family meeting in which they both sided against me dm knew how much dsis had borrowed only wanted 1 poa and as dsis was the oldest it was her dm did slip up and say she didn’t always tell her first but dsis said she was muddling up her words. My concern on this is that dsis needs an operation costing £30k and she has been talking about equity release on dm property having emptied her savings account and bank account that is why she was mentioning poa. Dm still has capacity but is obviously influenced by dsis. I am now going low contact with them both
So how do you keep going when it’s one thing after another my job is difficult my head is all over place I was off sick for a few days last week with a cyst I’ve had before and is stress related. me and dd have pamper nights we went to see barbie and have a night out planned tomorrow with her best friend her boyfriends sister who calls me her adopted mum so looking forward to that but life just feels so difficult like I am struggling to be positive and keep going when it’s one thing after another