I am a nervous flyer and one thing that has helped me fly over the years is knowing as much as possible about what is going on so I know what to expect. This holiday my flight was delayed due to a technical issue - something I have always dreaded. It's only happened to me once before (I do 3-4 round trips per year) but this time was worse as we were already on the plane. We started off for the runway and a strange sound (maybe hydraulic in nature?) could loudly be heard. Then the pilot said there was an issue and we went back. He said an engineer would come and take a look - obviously my anxiety was through the roof. After about 30 mins he said they were still 'flummoxed' (that was the word he used) but we'd hopefully get going soon. I can't tell you how I felt at that point - I was hoping he'd say we'd be getting off and would need to get another plane, no matter what the delay.
However, less than 10 mins after saying they were 'flummoxed' the pilot said we were sorted and would be on our way once a slot was available! With that we set off for the runway again. I felt sick. We had to wait about 20 mins for a slot, during which time I tried my best not to shout 'let me off you mad people!' During this time the pilot did casually mention that 'everything is fine with the aircraft now.' Obviously I knew that the pilot didn't want to die and of course the plane took off and everything was fine.
The incident has played on my mind though and while I know no one here will know exactly what happened, I would love to hear any insights anyone may have about how normal this type of thing is and how you can go from 'flummoxed' to putting a bloody great plane full of people into the sky within the space of 10 minutes!