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Private health insurance - worth?

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Clefable · 11/08/2023 15:36

My mum died of metastatic breast cancer recently, and it's focused my thoughts a little on our own family's health. My husband and I are 37 and have only one living parent between us, having lost our mums to cancer at the age of 49 and 69 and DH's dad to various medical conditions at the age of 50, which obviously makes me a bit nervous about our future health.

I've also got a couple of friends around my age recently who have been diagnosed with cancer and have faced a real struggle to get diagnosed and spent months fighting with GPs or on waiting lists before being able to access the treatments they need.

We are about to end a monthly financial commitment and I've been toying with the idea of using that money for private health insurance. I've only had one experience with private health care and it was excellent - I had a lump in my breast (benign thankfully) when I was 37 weeks pregnant, and given the time constraints, I opted to get seen privately rather than waiting for the NHS appointment and was in and out next day within an hour having seen consultant, had an ultrasound, cyst drained, and back to consultant again. DH and I were a bit staggered by the efficiency!

I should add that my experience of NHS in terms of actual treatment has been very good. My mum was treated very once diagnosed, and I had occasion to use the NHS breast clinic last year (abscess from mastitis) and felt well taken care of.

We can get coverage with AXA, which seems to be the most suitable package I can find, for around £90 a month for DH and I and our two young DC, which includes full cancer coverage. Obviously this will go up as we and they age, which I have accounted for in my budgeting.

I wondered if anyone who has health insurance themselves finds it worth doing or has been in a similar situation.

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clipclop5 · 11/08/2023 16:07

I genuinely wouldn’t be without ours. I am insured through work and have teen DD on a separate Bupa policy, the peace of mind it brings is well worth it. We’ve used it quite a bit over the past few years. Unfortunately the NHS is in such a state (especially where we are) that you can’t rely on it these days

BlastedSkreet · 11/08/2023 16:08

I can’t get it - too many pre-existing conditions, but I have got it for our kids, just in case.

Clefable · 11/08/2023 17:00

Thanks both. Yes, I feel like the peace of mind is probably worth the spend given we can afford to cover it from what we've been spending on something else, so it's money we haven't had in our budget for quite some time anyway. There seems to be quite an array of providers, but I am tempted by Axa as I used them years ago for another type of insurance and found them very easy and quick to deal with.

I will sit down tonight and give it some proper reading! DH is very blasé about health stuff but does accept that we are perhaps not blessed with good genes, although both of us have never had any health issues up till now bar normal stuff, childbirth and my two breast issues which are not cancer-related, just hormonal/breastfeeding related, but naturally both have made me very anxious with my family history and the thought of being able to have any future issues there seen v swiftly is very tempting.

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clipclop5 · 11/08/2023 20:19

OP - the only one I wouldn’t recommend is Bupa, they can be quite tricky to deal with and call handlers often bordering on rude.. A 45 minute wait just to get through isn’t unusual. That being said they have covered everything we’ve asked for so can’t complain that much! I’ve had both Axa and Aviva through work, they’re pretty comparable but if I had to choose I’d say Aviva were the best

Longingforthesummer · 11/08/2023 20:22

Who does everyone else use?

MrsPerfect12 · 11/08/2023 20:27

I use Axa and wouldn't be without it. Personally I'd stay away from bupa. A lot of private hospitals won't use them as they're not paying the going rate.
Check your local private hospital/physio etc to see who they accept.

Gooseysgirl · 11/08/2023 20:29

We have health insurance and I would absolutely not be without it. My dad had cancer in his early 50s and although he ultimately died from it, the insurance covered access to treatment he would not have received otherwise at the time. My SIL's sister died a few years ago from cancer and I am certain she would have had a better chance of survival had she been seen faster on the NHS.

Namechangedforthis25 · 11/08/2023 20:33

So I have insurance and I’m on Mat leave- And on one day my husband took leave to enable me to check the following things:

  1. lump in pelvis - had a consultation with consultant gynaecologist
  2. painful foot - consultant orthopaedic surgeon: X-ray and consultation
  3. breast lump: one stop breast clinic including ultrasound

It really made me amazed at how efficient everything was.

The same thing would have taken weeks to months on the nhs depending on the medical urgency

FatCatBum · 11/08/2023 20:37

100% worth it in my opinion. I wouldn't be without ours

FatCatBum · 11/08/2023 20:38

Longingforthesummer · 11/08/2023 20:22

Who does everyone else use?

I have used various but Vitality have been excellent, I wouldn't touch Bupa with a barge pole (particularly their awful open referral scheme)

nc14 · 11/08/2023 20:40

I get it as a benefit through work and I then pay extra each month to add DC. I wouldn’t be without it. DC had an ENT issue when he was very small, I was really worried, and we were able to see a specialist within 3 days. I dread to think how long I’d have been worrying with the NHS.

Augustlou30 · 11/08/2023 20:42

Having worked in both I'd say private healthcare is brilliant if you need a quicker diagnosis, physio, scans, minor surgery and lots of other things. If you need major surgery or emergency acute medical care there's no beating the NHS for expertise and if things go wrong the back up is there in minutes x

Bellabelloo · 11/08/2023 20:47

Do it! Mine has been a Godsend for big and small things - especially now it's really difficult to get a Gp appointment where I live. With my private healthcare I can get a same day video appointment and then a prescription at my local pharmacy within half an hour - at no cost for the excess. I also had breast cancer and the cover was invaluable throughout.

NoStrangertotheRain · 11/08/2023 20:50

Problem is that when you really need it, i.e. when you're older, the premiums rocket. So what's costing you hundreds now will be thousands in your 50s.

whathappenedtosummer23 · 11/08/2023 21:02

💯 wouldn’t be without it. Have used it for so many things including cancer care for family member. My mum needs a hip replacement, booked herself in for October. Now thinks she can’t wait that long so rearranged it for next week.

Toooldtoworry · 11/08/2023 21:07

I'm with Vitality through work. They are incredible.

Cinai · 11/08/2023 21:10

Following with interest, I want to get private insurance and need to decide which one

Namechangedforthis25 · 11/08/2023 21:31

Sorry to hijack this

I have Aviva with work, which as above, has been brilliant.

but I want to get something for my elderly parents. In truth I think I can only afford benenden - but does anyone know what the deal is with that?

ohsuzannah · 11/08/2023 21:32

Go for it! I'm on my partner's healthcare plan and so far I've had a hernia operation, gallbladder removal, left knee replacement, and I'm currently waiting to have the right knee replacement. The treatment is fantastic, hospital meals like a hotel etc. waiting lists for knee replacement in my area are 3 years, and as I'm bone on bone, I'd be in a wheelchair soon.

Diddykong · 11/08/2023 21:37

I assume the cost goes up the more you use it? Because you're then seen as a riskier patient? I'd love to get it for us but I'm currently under a consultant so are DCs (both on long paediatric waiting lists) so I'm guessing the cost would be astronomical

Clefable · 11/08/2023 21:55

Yes, it's like all insurance in that respect I imagine, although you can apparently protect your NCB on some policies. I don't know how much it goes up by, does anyone have any experience?!

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Namechange3333777 · 11/08/2023 21:55

I have Axa through work. Wouldn't be without it, have had 2 hip replacements in the time a friend has been waiting for an NHS referral to see a consultant for their hips

Drywhitefruitycidergin · 11/08/2023 22:02

Namechangedforthis25 · 11/08/2023 21:31

Sorry to hijack this

I have Aviva with work, which as above, has been brilliant.

but I want to get something for my elderly parents. In truth I think I can only afford benenden - but does anyone know what the deal is with that?

My parents have been using Benenden for years & it's been brilliant. They've had so much done. I don't know if it makes a difference that they are based in East Sussex so literally go to Benenden - but I understand you can use other places now as well.

Namechangedforthis25 · 11/08/2023 22:07

@Drywhitefruitycidergin thanks!

prescribingmum · 11/08/2023 22:09

Also have whole family insured via employer and it is absolutely fantastic. As a pp said, emergencies are best dealt with via NHS but can’t beat private for investigations.

DC had an ongoing issue which GP wasn’t able to deal with (they were amazing but was just outside their remit) but paeds referral was more than 1yr wait as not considered serious enough. In meantime, they continue to suffer. Got an appointment the following week with leading specialist in country via private cover, tests carried out that week and clear treatment plan