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Struggling with sciatica

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Sameold23 · 08/08/2023 03:22

Hi, so I started with this 10 days ago. Horrendous pain with numb leg and foot. Ended up in A&E. I've mainly been in bed as could not move. The last few days I've cut my painkillers and have been moving about more. I've managed the stairs a few times. Now my pain is back, but I thought I was supposed to be moving around. Basically I can't sleep as the pain is annoying and I'm freaking out that this is never going to end. The gp has referred me to physio which shouldn't be too much longer. Just wanted advice on what I should be doing please.

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Sheldoncoopersspot · 08/08/2023 03:31

I suffer from Sciatica regularly and cannot recommend a tens machine enough i put one pad on my back and one where the sciatic nerve starts and pretty much just go about my day once the pain eases.
I hope you feel better soon.

Sameold23 · 08/08/2023 03:33

Thank you. I completely forgot that I've just bought one! I'll check it out in the morning. Would you advise keeping moving? Could I be doing more damage?

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5YearsLeft · 08/08/2023 03:41

I completely understand what it’s like being up in the middle of the night with pain (and here I am, answering you!). I’ve had what they thought was sciatica in the past (it turned out to be related to my disease unfortunately). BUT I learned quite a bit about sciatica at the time. Since it’s caused by an inflamed nerve, just movement alone may not help. It will not cause damage, BUT it could be exacerbating the inflammation, as if you had a bruise and kept hitting it on something. In fact, if a certain way you’re moving contributed to the problem, if perhaps you have a gait issue you’ve never noticed, then you may be making it worse (but that still won’t cause permanent damage). The type of movement that you start with, when you’re healing from sciatica, is meant to be gentle stretching, and exercises hopefully given to you by a physio who has examined how the sciatica affects you.

It’s wonderful that you’ve cut down on the painkillers, as I know that can be so tough in your body. However, so can the pain. I would recommend that, if you want to decrease painkiller use, you save it for making sure it can help you sleep at night, as that may be the most important time (I know this is difficult, as of course, we’d all rather have less pain when going through our day, but getting quality rest WILL actually lower your pain a bit, and not getting any will raise it). PP is right about TENS machines being hugely helpful for a lot of people. I also can’t recommend heating pads or a heated blanket highly enough - just something heated that you can put directly where it hurts. Some people find more comfort from ice, but for inflamed nerves, I’ve found heat much more helpful. What heated pads and a TENS machine have in common is that they can be better than painkillers because you can put them right where it hurts.

It absolutely WILL heal. You just need to combine rest with careful, targeted movement, and treatments designed specifically to bring down the inflammation, like ice and heat.

Good luck, OP. I know how painful it is, and I really hope you’re feeling much better soon.

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Sheldoncoopersspot · 08/08/2023 03:43

I kept moving when i could if it was really bad I just stayed in bed and just had a little walk around the bed when I could. my worst bout was 18 months of constant pain and I even had my tens machine on at night so I could sleep even though its not recommended but needs must and all. I also slept on my side and put a pillow between my knees.

Sameold23 · 08/08/2023 03:49

@5YearsLeft

Thank you so much for your lovely reply. I think it's the stairs that have done it.

I'm so worried for the future. I can't drive, I can't work, I can't look after the dc or the house. I'm completely stuck.

Should I be contacting the gp again? Or just wait for this referral? He was adamant I should only use an NHS physio.

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Sameold23 · 08/08/2023 03:50

*@Sheldoncoopersspot

18 months is just horrendous. You poor thing.

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Turquioseblue · 08/08/2023 03:51

I have sciatica, the initial pain was dreadful, but it was managed by gentle movement (careful walking and stretches), painkillers and I would also highly recommend heat pads - I used the wheat ones - basically I had rotating heat pads constantly until I was over the worst pain! Then if you have access to an indoor heated pool, hydrotherapy is fantastic.

At first I could barely walk from the pain - it took time but I eventually became pain free until late in the day,, I guess when I get a bit tired it hurts somewhat and I avoid standing for long periods now.

It is horrible but it does get better! Warmth and painkillers and gentle movement.

Turquioseblue · 08/08/2023 04:03

Sorry, just saw the updates - it took me about a year to be completely back to normal - I honestly understand the pain is horrendous - but heat packs, TENS machines & painkillers do start to kick in and give you relief...your muscles contract with the pain, I discovered a lot of my pain was from this, and the heat packs help the muscles relax - honestly they helped me more than anything else did.

It's worth reading up on chronic pain - there are utube videos about it - the more you concentrate on the pain the more your brain burns neural pathways that increase the sensitivity to the pain - so I used music/heat/stretches/distraction as much as possible - but yes I took painkillers prescribed by the GP for ages.

It's horrible, I do feel for you - but you will get over this - I wouldn't have wished the pain on anybody. I also had a lumbar spine injection of a painkiller which helped slightly, as they thought a slipped disc could be causing the problem.

Try everything and find whatever works best for you. It's a wretched thing but it will eventually ease and you can do things normally again, so don't totally despair. I was lucky I wasn't working, but driving was difficult for some time and I honestly let the housework go completely, it just couldn't be helped. If you can get assistance with the house, I would!

Sameold23 · 08/08/2023 04:04

@Turquioseblue

Thanks, I'm on constant hot water bottles. Might get some wheat ones- good idea.

How long was it before you could go back to semi normal? Did you just manage it at home? My family are currently abroad on our summer holiday and I'm getting really down and worried. I also have commitments at work.

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Sameold23 · 08/08/2023 04:08

Thr gp said an mri wasn't necessary as the symptoms are classic slipped disc.

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Toastandmarmiteandtea · 08/08/2023 04:20

I had a slipped disc and sciatica. It was horrendous and took 6 months to resolve but did improve a lot over that time. In the end, i took amytriptiline for the nerve pain which enabled me to start swimming which helped. Osteopathy and sports massage also helped. I did the physio exercises too.

loopychick · 08/08/2023 04:23

Oh my goodness, this is me currently!
I'm off work and have what the GP and physio deem chronic sciatica.
It's been creeping up on my - thought I'd aggravated a hamstring bug nope it's sciatica.
Literally woke up one morning screaming in pain and couldn't move.
Husband had to ring 111 (it was a weekend) and the emergency GP prescribed painkillers.
They helped to numb the pain so I could at least get up and have a wee, but I had to drag my leg along.
GP gave me more drugs on the Monday but they made me so dopey, I felt out of control and permanently drowsy.
I saw an NHS physio on the Tuesday but he couldn't do anything as I was in so much pain.
That was three weeks ago.
I'm still in a lot of pain (hence being awake now) but it's certainly improving.
Physio has given me exercises, but if I'm honest, they really hurt, and I have to stop.

I find walking (albeit very slowly) helps, and trying to be more mobile also helps, but equally I have to lay down and rest just as much....with a hot water bottle!

It's utterly miserable and I want to go back to work but my job is quite physical and there's no way I'd be able to do it safely.

More physio in two weeks, then hopefully a recovery action plan to get stronger

Sameold23 · 08/08/2023 04:28

@loopychick

Aarrgghhh you are me!!!

Dh thought I'd snapped my hamstring.

Mines been coming a long time I think.

Has any feeling returned to your leg?

And not to be rude, but are any of you overweight? I've 2 stone to lose and feel like I've brought this on myself. I'm just lying in bed eating chocolate and feeling sorry for myself though.

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loopychick · 08/08/2023 04:46

Sameold23 · 08/08/2023 04:28

@loopychick

Aarrgghhh you are me!!!

Dh thought I'd snapped my hamstring.

Mines been coming a long time I think.

Has any feeling returned to your leg?

And not to be rude, but are any of you overweight? I've 2 stone to lose and feel like I've brought this on myself. I'm just lying in bed eating chocolate and feeling sorry for myself though.

Strangely I lost a lot of weight this year, and so no I'm not overweight.
I'm pretty fit too for my age!
I'm cabin crew and have to pass a pretty intense medical which included checking my back and making sure I could bend....all no problem!

This just suddenly came on about three months ago and just niggled. As I say I thought it was a pulled hamstring so I just took it easy until that morning three weeks ago.

I'm in naproxen now which help, plus GP gave me amitriptyline, nefapam and tramadol - all of which I've stopped

loopychick · 08/08/2023 04:52

Mine has possibly been caused by a neck problem...from pulling a heavy wheelie suitcase along.
Physio says it's from my neck AND back although my back is fine and isn't hurting.
He says that's the problem...my leg is taking the strain from my neck and back.

I can't sit properly as it hurts too much on my right butt cheek and my thigh!

Never realised how painful sciatica could be 😢

Sameold23 · 08/08/2023 04:52

That's good to know. I had lost a stone and was running. Apparently they think mine is poor posture at my desk. I sit for 8 hours with my legs crossed. Why did I do that??

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Sameold23 · 08/08/2023 04:55

That's really interesting.

Mine is right butt cheek and thigh. I never knew either. The numbness is worrying me.

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loopychick · 08/08/2023 04:58

Sameold23 · 08/08/2023 04:55

That's really interesting.

Mine is right butt cheek and thigh. I never knew either. The numbness is worrying me.

Yes my leg tingles like pins and needles...especially if I sit up too quickly or get up after laying down.
My leg also goes hot and my calve feels really tight.
Then sometimes it's all numb....

It's a horrible feeling

Sameold23 · 08/08/2023 05:06

My foot is numb which concerns me. I'm worried that this is my life now.

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WildFlowerBees · 08/08/2023 05:12

Feel for you op, it's a horrible pain.

Nerve flossing can help

Also on YouTube there's a couple of guys called Bob & Brad who give good advice.

I second the Tens machine, also spinal decompression can help.

I hope you recover soon, sciatic pain can be so debilitating. 💐

crystalize · 08/08/2023 05:13

I tried allsorts when I had it. These gentle Feldenkrais exercises on Youtube absolutely helped - the added bonus of long term neck pain also mostly gone.
https://www.youtube.com/@TaroIwamoto/search?query=sciatica

Before you continue to YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/@TaroIwamoto/search?query=sciatica

Sameold23 · 08/08/2023 05:14

Thank you. Would I be ok to start doing exercises without seeing a physio first?

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WildFlowerBees · 08/08/2023 05:21

Sameold23 · 08/08/2023 05:14

Thank you. Would I be ok to start doing exercises without seeing a physio first?

Yes, physio may well give you the same exercises. I saw a chiropractor as the physio wasn't helping. She adjusted me and gave me the same flossing exercises. I had to have 4 sessions but after that I was so much better. Also was told that the pain either moves out of your leg so from back down to foot or just goes away. Mine just went away but was gradual.

I still do the decompression exercises and am careful not to do things that will aggravate it.

loopychick · 08/08/2023 05:23

Thank you for these exercises.
I'm going to try them all today

WildFlowerBees · 08/08/2023 05:28

loopychick · 08/08/2023 05:23

Thank you for these exercises.
I'm going to try them all today

I hope they work for you, I've noted Crystalizes suggestion also, some nice stretches on his channel.

I did read somewhere about magnetic bracelets but never properly looked into it.

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