i met a friend at baby massage let’s say Amy … when our los were tiny , we got on great so I thought and spent a lot of time together
we joined a few hobby groups too
at one hobby we met a few more women all older who have older toddler age children
really nice people
Amy has been meeting these more recently a lot and nights out meals and cinema and play dates… however Amy has a pre school aged child and a baby the pre school age one is six months older than most of theirs.
ive been excluded from most meet ups, especially the things Amy has arranged and this includes play dates and park meets as well as nights out and cinemas etc
i can’t help but feel hurt
im finding the activity we do one evening feels a bit awkward now as she smiles then turns her back on me and the all go to one corner of the hall and chat together before and after. No one speaks to me same at local park , they were all sat outside a cafe there having lunch with the kids and I was walking past I just said hi then went home to cry!
I don’t have many friends here and am feeling lonely , so I don’t know if it’s more me and my own fault that I feel this way, I tried to make an effort with her new group but i think it made it worse almost like she was possessive of her new group.
she’s gone from messaging me every day to nothing and it’s been a whole month now. The few messages I sent, just asking how she were ,have all gone unanswered!so I stopped trying then sent another one on Friday asking about a meet up for the coming week but again she has read but not answered, shall I just give up… Has anyone had a similar situation and what advice can you give? My own hometown is three hours away and I have a few friends there but not meet up much!