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wedding gift ideas

18 replies

NetZeroZealot · 29/07/2023 17:54

We're going to a wedding soon.
DH's colleague.
No idea what to get them as a gift.
They are an older couple - early 50s. Live in rented accommodation.
They don't have a list, are relatively well off, and we are stumped.
DH has asked the groom but he just said nothing.
Showing up empty-handed isn't an option.
Ideas please?

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Fivemoreminutes1 · 29/07/2023 18:03

Afternoon tea for two voucher
Wedding Day rose bush
Inscribed personalised photo frame
Hotel Chocolat large chocolate dipping adventure

Dombasle · 29/07/2023 18:10

Anything here?

www.marksandspencer.com/l/gifts/food-and-drink-gifts/food-gifts

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Summer2424 · 29/07/2023 18:21

Hi @NetZeroZealot i would get a voucher for lunch at a nice restaurant or entry into something like Kew Gardens. Enjoy the wedding x

nicknamehelp · 29/07/2023 18:27

A nice bottle. Experience vouchers often mean added expense to couple who may not even want the Experience.

NetZeroZealot · 29/07/2023 18:28

Hmmm. Thanks for the suggestions so far. I don't think a hamper is the way to go. Think our budget is about £100 to £150. They are quite cool people.

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NetZeroZealot · 29/07/2023 18:29

I do like the idea of a rose bush but as they live in a rented flat without a garden that's not going to work!

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Meduse · 29/07/2023 18:31

Theatre voucher or a voucher for a restaurant?

SleepingStandingUp · 29/07/2023 18:37

If your limit is that much,I'd go for vouchers for somewhere local to eat.

CurlewKate · 29/07/2023 18:46

My go to is a picnic basket.

Ragwort · 29/07/2023 18:50

Did the groom actually say 'thank you but there's nothing we want or need' or did he just not reply when your DH asked him?

Many couples in their 50s really, really wouldn't want any more 'stuff' in their lives so if he doesn't want anything just respect that. You are buying a present to appease your own conscience that you can't turn up empty handed.

If you have give something then maybe John Lewis vouchers? They at least can be spent on food in Waitrose.

KirstenBlest · 29/07/2023 18:53

John Lewis vouchers

nobodygoesdowninthejungle · 29/07/2023 18:54

Are other colleagues going? If so, they are probably equally stumped. Could your DH suggest to them that they club together and get vouchers for a restaurant or, if there are a few of them with a £100+ budget, even a hotel or something. If they're in their 50s, I'd say the last thing they'll want is something like a picnic basket. They've probably got much of what they want!

Augustusgloooop · 29/07/2023 18:56

I would get vouchers (somewhere like John Lewis, Selfridges or a restaurant that’s local to them) or champagne/wine.

readingismycardio · 29/07/2023 18:58

We got beautiful linen bedding which we love and use to this day

DappledThings · 29/07/2023 19:02

DH has asked the groom but he just said nothing.
Showing up empty-handed isn't an option.
Do you mean he said nothing as in he didn't reply, or he said "nothing". The latter is a clear request and means showing up empty-handed is not only an option but is actually the polite thing to do.

TerryWoganFanGirl · 29/07/2023 19:07

A lovely present which we got was Malmaison vouchers

luckylavender · 29/07/2023 19:09

NetZeroZealot · 29/07/2023 18:29

I do like the idea of a rose bush but as they live in a rented flat without a garden that's not going to work!

My thoughts exactly. Afternoon Tea or restaurant vouchers safe I think.

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