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Who is Gilbert!?

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HurdyGurdy19 · 24/07/2023 13:27

My grandson is 11, autistic/GDD. He lives 200 miles away with his mum. His dad lives with us. Grandson comes to stay with us for a week at a time, four times a year.

You can't have a conversation with him, so trying to work out what or who he's talking about is very difficult. He will just parrot back - e.g. if you say "what do you want to eat", he will just say the same thing back to you. Very occasionally, he will answer, but if you then ask him something else, he'll just repeat that back to you, and will either forget, or just not want to respond to the first question again.

However, for the last few times he's been to stay, if he goes to leave the lounge and someone says, for example "where are you off to"? he will say "I'm going to play with Gilbert".

He watches CBeebies obsessively, and is addicted to his tablet, so it could be something from there that he's heard. His mum has no idea what it is he's talking about.

It's nothing in the grand scheme of things, but we'd love to know what/who he's talking about.

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LaMaG · 24/07/2023 14:42

LaMaG · 24/07/2023 14:41

Is that what that expression means?? Going to the toilet? Heard it so many times and never knew....

I meant to quote the going to see a man about a dog part..

ManyATrueWord · 24/07/2023 14:45

Caillou as a cat called Gilbert.

HurdyGurdy19 · 25/07/2023 20:32

24Dogcuddler · 24/07/2023 14:37

Our daughter had an imaginary friend called Jack. One day the swing was moving in the wind and she said “ look Mummy Jack is on the swing “ scary. She just grew out of it.

Could Gilbert be someone at school? Child or member of staff? Often staff in specialist settings are known by first names ( easier to say for children)
It could even be something he’s heard someone say ( delayed echolalia)

You could try saying “ Gilbert is a…” pause for a response to see if he says boy, cat etc. Does he use a communication system at all?
If he has echolalia instead of asking general questions either scaffold or offer a choice
e.g. X wants…. ( maybe standing near the fridge or food cupboard) or offer 2 choices of things you know he eats fish fingers or sausages? Hold both out to see what he selects. Sorry if you already use these.

He used to use PECS but for some reason, his mum stopped using it.

I've just googled echolalia, as I'd not heard it before, and it's really interesting, so thank you for that.

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HurdyGurdy19 · 25/07/2023 20:33

PuttingDownRoots · 24/07/2023 14:39

Little Princess (not sure if that's still on Milkshake?) Pretty sure the princesses Teddy bear is called Gilbert.

Thank you - I've sent that to my son to see if he can casually show it to grandson and see if it gets any reaction.

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HurdyGurdy19 · 25/07/2023 20:34

ManyATrueWord · 24/07/2023 14:45

Caillou as a cat called Gilbert.

Thank you - I've passed that on to my son, to see if he gets any reaction when he shows grandson a picture.

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