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Help me find the nicest place to live

86 replies

Poppyseeks · 19/07/2023 19:57

I am fed up of the place that I live so I am dreaming of winning the lottery tonight and want to decide where I want to move to. Help me choose.

Critera:

  • A really nice small town/large village, I like to be able to walk to some amenities so nothing isolated
  • Anywhere in England
  • Relatively middle class- Private school close by/ good state
  • Small high street with at least one cafe, pub and ideally a couple of boutiques.
  • About 30 mins from a nice town/city
  • Not a typical tourist destination
  • Not Manchester (too rainy) or Cornwall (too touristy)

Thanks 😊

OP posts:
Roserunner · 20/07/2023 19:12

Alresford.

Paramummy3 · 20/07/2023 19:13

Churchtown, Merseyside

Coronationstation · 20/07/2023 19:15

Pieceofpurplesky · 19/07/2023 20:20

Tarporley
Frodsham
Knutsford

Basically as wet as Manchester! There’s a reason Cheshire is full of dairy farms and that’s because all the rain makes the grass grow for the cows to eat.
you need to go east for drier weather

Jujubes5 · 20/07/2023 19:15

Brampton - it’s not far from Carlisle which has a fee paying school. Pretty. Not far from the lakes.

LivelyBlake · 20/07/2023 19:17

Thame
Amersham

greenmarsupial · 20/07/2023 19:18

DCIJackieDeering · 19/07/2023 22:47

Ely

I second this, ticks all of your boxes and is so nice we are planning to move there too! Be careful to move to the one in Cambridgeshire not Cardiff!

hattie43 · 20/07/2023 19:19

Chichester

itsmyp4rty · 20/07/2023 19:20

Hungerford, Marlborough, Newbury, Winchester.

Princesspeach31 · 20/07/2023 19:21

My home town of Bungay - 30mins from Norwich, gorgeous boutiques and thriving high street, off the beaten track and with coast and countryside on our doorstep.

whiteroseredrose · 20/07/2023 19:22

Skipton or Harrogate.

Maybe Hexham

CosilyRosily · 20/07/2023 19:22

A303 · 20/07/2023 18:25

I wanted to put Gillingham in Dorset but I thought people will think I meant Gillingham in Kent. So I chickened out and put Grantham which I got confused with Stamford. I know Grantham isn't Stamford, and it is not an easy mistake to make in the same way as thinking Gillingham in Kent is not the same as Gillingham in Dorset, albeit the other way round, or at least so I thought. So having thought further I do wonder what people think of Grantham? If you think it really is not a nice town then let me know your thoughts. Otherwise I will be thinking you don't really know Grantham that well or might be mixing it up with Stamford or Oakham or Melton Mowbray or Boston or Chatteris, but not Holt which is in North Norfolk.

Can confirm: grantham definitely not nice, oakham and stamford are both lovely and tick a lot of the boxes!

hattie43 · 20/07/2023 19:23

Iforgotmyusernameagainandagain · 19/07/2023 22:40

What will you do if you move then discover working class common folk in your ivory tower? I live in a deprived town in the North East and we have a huge influx of newcomers from all over the UK who appreciate the diversity our little town has. Does it not occur to you that people are just people?

There are middle class arseholes, working class arseholes and upper class arseholes. There are also the same classes of lovely people everywhere. You should widen your horizons - you may be surprised at what you find.

People are not just people .
I'd not move to a deprived area as I think that sort of neighbourhood has a different tolerance to noise and anti social behaviour .
I live reasonably close between 2 essentially middle class villages and now more social housing has arrived the village Facebook pages are littered with negative goings on . Social cohesion is a myth .

A303 · 20/07/2023 19:25

Has anyone mentioned Pagford yet?

Sunmachine · 20/07/2023 19:25

Wells is a good shout from a PP; lovely little city

ivykaty44 · 20/07/2023 19:28

A303 · 19/07/2023 20:45

Did you see what I did?

Yeah, but you could have used Kenilworth, it’s not touristy and has plenty of private schools nearby, along with a high street surrounded by housing and pubs etc

justaweenamechange · 20/07/2023 19:31

Faversham
Sevenoaks
Battle

Sugargliderwombat · 20/07/2023 19:35

Richmond but j think you'd like rye x

ScurvyTed · 20/07/2023 19:37

Belper, Derbyshire

ColonelRhubarbBikini · 20/07/2023 19:44

Shrewsbury is the only correct answer Grin

MissAmbrosia · 20/07/2023 19:46

Deal in Kent

ElizaMulvil · 20/07/2023 20:11

Dore ( edge of Peak District, 20 mins to centre Sheffield by car.) Wonderful countryside on doorstep plus Ecclesall Woods, SSIs, Blackamoor etc within the borders of the Greenest City in country.

Village feel but caters for virtually every interest you can imagine , good schools Primary and Secondary, cafes/restaurants, easy access to Crucible, Teaching Hospitals, Dental hospital, excellent Universities, railway station so trains to Manchester ( and airport), Liverpool, East Coast ( Nottingham soon) etc.

MoreHairyThanScary · 20/07/2023 20:18

Ivybridge - in Devon but not a tourist hotspot but close to the moors and really good beaches, couple of ok private school but ok ish state too

Iforgotmyusernameagainandagain · 20/07/2023 21:45

hattie43 · 20/07/2023 19:23

People are not just people .
I'd not move to a deprived area as I think that sort of neighbourhood has a different tolerance to noise and anti social behaviour .
I live reasonably close between 2 essentially middle class villages and now more social housing has arrived the village Facebook pages are littered with negative goings on . Social cohesion is a myth .

People ARE just people, some are nice and some are not. Are you seriously saying all middle class people are better than all working class people who live in social housing? What a snob!

FWIW I live in the most expensive part of our deprived area. In our town we have homes ranging from £1m down to £5k. Wherever you go you find deprivation, but not all of the people living in the particularly deprived neighbourhoods are the scum of the earth.

I've never been keen on the sheer snobbery we sometimes see on Mumsnet threads like this. I came from social housing but it's not where I ended up. In fact most of the people in the expensive area I lived in came from social housing and worked their way up the property ladder by sheer hard work, intelligence and grit. Don't you believe people can be upwardly mobile?

WhenHarryMetTaylor · 20/07/2023 21:47

Poundbury?

A303 · 21/07/2023 18:01

Lord Hereford's Knob