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What language do you think in?

23 replies

KingKhazi · 16/07/2023 22:28

If you're first language is not English but you speak English the majority of the time, what language do you think in? I've always wondered this!

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RunningOutOfZzzzzzs · 16/07/2023 22:37

I once shared a hostel room with a German girl whilst backpacking. She talked in her sleep and she spoke English then! She had spent months backpacking in an English speaking country though so had been speaking English a lot.

JustOneMoreSec · 16/07/2023 22:38

English if I'm i thinking of a situation where the people I interact with speak English. My mother tongue when it's something to do with my family and friends back home. Most of the time is English because where I live nobody speaks my mother tongue. I only realised of this recently as someone asked me that question. Same for dreams!

Myworldjusthim · 16/07/2023 22:38

Great question. I had to think about this. I’m bilingual and my thoughts are in English. Probably because I speak English more fluently and so can articulate my thoughts better.

Chatillon · 16/07/2023 22:39

Frenglish

Jasmine999 · 16/07/2023 22:40

English. But when I visit my native country I flip between the two like I do with speaking. Dreams always English though!

NotABeliever · 16/07/2023 22:41

You always switch to your mothertongue language when counting!

GeraltsBathtub · 16/07/2023 22:41

A mixture! Like I’ll even think of some words in English and some words in my other language within the same sentence/thought. And then some thoughts aren’t even in words/language.

My dreams are a mixture as well but tend more to the language I am most immersed in, ie English at the moment as I’m in the U.K., as most of my dreams seem to be processing the day’s events.

ditalini · 16/07/2023 22:41

I remember my uncle saying that he knew he was properly fluent/bilingual when he started dreaming in his adopted langauge.

AngryGreasedSantaCatcus · 16/07/2023 22:42

English. I rarely speak my native language so English is what comes naturally to me, even in my thoughts. Apparently I sleep talk in English as well and I'm pretty sure I dream in English.

Assignedtoworryyourmother · 16/07/2023 22:43

A mixture, as pps have said depends on the context and sometimes the emotion attached to the thought/dream. I swear in English, I have a far superior vocabulary in English swear words.

MandUs · 16/07/2023 22:44

English but count in my first language.

BotterMon · 16/07/2023 22:45

Depends on what the subject is. Work tends to be thinking in English whereas home life is French. Dreams again depends on what subject is! I speak 4 languages but English and French are truly bi-lingual. People laugh at us as our family conversations are in Franglais which we all speak perfectly.

LadyLolaRuben · 16/07/2023 22:45

Plot twist...im English and when I was a child I remember the moment the accent that I "think in" changed. I'd moved from the north west to the south west at 8 years old. At 10 years old I was reading a book and realised my internal dialogue accent had gone from a northern to a west country accent

SallyWD · 16/07/2023 22:47

English is DH's second la fuage but he's been here 20 years now and says he thinks and dreams in English

Afonavon · 16/07/2023 22:51

I was an Au Pair in Belgium after my A-levels. I only had A-Level french and I wasn’t really fluent. However after two weeks I began dreaming in French. I was well chuffed! French is my third language.

Simonjt · 16/07/2023 22:53

Urdu, no dreams etc ever happen in English, the voice in my head isn’t in English either.

PSG · 16/07/2023 23:03

It depends. I work in English so thinking about work is in English. Day to day stuff is in the native language mostly. If it has to do with my English husband I think in English again.
I speak a third language, too, which I don’t use that much. If I am in a country where it is used, it takes me 2-3 days and I switch to thinking in that language.

IloveJudgeJudy · 16/07/2023 23:18

When I lived in Germany I dreamt and thought in German but now I’m in England I do everything in English. It just depends on which country you’re in and which language you use most.

FlipFlopPlop · 16/07/2023 23:54

Bilingual, but think in English. I do use English all the time (unless speaking to older relatives).

TreesandFish · 17/07/2023 00:01

Mostly English but I count and maths in my mother tongue

PurplePens · 17/07/2023 00:51

Always in my mother tongue.
I only use English when I'm out of the house or at work, and on here obviously.

captainsandyscrew · 17/07/2023 01:28

I'm always so envious of the people so skilled in languages on these threads. I can barely speak English, let alone another language!

GarlicGrace · 17/07/2023 02:00

I dreamed in French when living in France.
While living in another country where my grasp of the language was conversational but not great, I realised I was having dreams where the other characters spoke in the host country's language - almost certainly with all the mistakes I made in real life 😂

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