Broke up 3-4 weeks ago. He said there was a loss of connection, he wanted space and time to figure things out etc. Then I found him on a dating app. That was it for me.
A week later I had to follow up and remind him to pay his half of the holiday. The next day I thanked him for paying and wished him well.
He left my message unread and didn’t reply. Until now. Which is the day we would have flown on our holiday. He simply replied ‘thank you. Wish you all good things too. You were so lovely to me.’
My guy friend thinks hes chosen this day to msg me back because it’s manipulation. My other guy friend thinks it’s just a nice msg he’s sending as he’s probably remembered it was our holiday day.
I couldn’t give a F about this guy. I hate how he treated me. I have moved on.
But I’m curious - do you think it’s an innocent msg or manipulation?