DS (11) has recently started getting into football and has joined a team. He absolutely loves it but is struggling a bit as he’s pretty unfit compared to the other boys. He’s not lazy but he’s never been massively sporty - despite years of lessons and help from way more experienced parents than me, he still can’t really ride a bike and isn’t the best swimmer. Always near the end in school races and sports day etc. He previously played basketball but again, he wasn’t too great at it. Even out waking the dog he’s always trailed way behind. He’s not overweight but he’s also not super lean/skinny like a lot of the other boys although he actually seems to have a better diet than most of the ones I know.
I know how much being good at football means to him right now and I want to do anything I can to try and help him. Does anyone have suggestions? I should add I always give him massive praise etc and keep everything really positive, I have never/would never mention this to him, I couldn’t care less about him being sporty but he has brought it up a couple of times and I don’t really know how to help him. Any advice would be much appreciated.