My mum is going through a divorce. She filled an affidavit of means a number of years ago. About 4. At the time she didn't declare her savings account.
She has to complete another affidavit of means to update it. She wants to declare her savings account now. But she still wants to hide her savings from her ex husband. She said she wants to take out the money and have the account empty. I told her that, that's not going to work because they will want to see a statent and it will show up. She's not really understanding that part. On one hand she wants to do what's right and declare it and then on the other hand she doesn't want her ex husband to know about the savings. They are a long time separated and they never sorted anything legal between themselves and her savings were built up not during their marriage but we'll after the separation. I can't see why it should be factored into the divorce and considered and asset for divorce and something to be possibly shared with her ex, who is an alcoholic and can't sort anything himself. If he got a piece of anything from my mum, he would only drink it away in the pub.