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Police broke in and found FIL dead, what happens next?

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Matchingcollarandcuffs · 12/07/2023 17:42

Poor DH found out today that his dad's neighbours were worried for him so they called the Police who found him, they think he'd been dead since yesterday.

He's spoken to Coroners Office who are waiting to hear from the GP as to whether the death was unexpected, before deciding if a PM is needed. Can we tell banks/benefits etc if no death cert yet?

The flat was rented, well over 100 miles from us, DH is sole NOK and barely any other family (DH aunt and cousins), but was pretty much estranged from his dad as parents split when he was young.

Does anyone have any idea what happened next? And how long do you have to clear out rented accommodation(private)? No idea who landlord even is, do we need to pay to make the damage good?

We've been through our mum's deaths before but they were expected and paperwork in place, this is completely different.

Finally, if Police know it's him will DH have to identify the body?

Sorry if these are all odd questions, it's just hard

OP posts:
Blossomtoes · 13/07/2023 22:15

House clearance is about £200 and worth every penny.

Lellochip · 13/07/2023 22:39

PrincessofWellies · 13/07/2023 21:09

Yes, absolutely the landlord's job to hire a skip and a couple of blokes and throw everything in it and pay for the disposal of somebody else's belongings at their own expense 🙄

It is the executor's or personal representatives moral and legal duty to deal with it and the estate, if any, pays.

And if there's no money in the estate? No relative should be left out of pocket clearing a property anymore than a landlord should.

GettingStuffed · 13/07/2023 23:22

When contacting utilities etc ask to speak to the bereavement department as they should be able to sort the account out in a way which doesn't send letters to the person who died, British Gas I'm looking at you.

TheBlinkOfAnEye · 13/07/2023 23:25

The cost of a skip and the cost of cleaning our relatives house came from the security bond payment that is usual with a rental. The two weeks rent after their death also came from that. In our case, the LL was a friend of the family so, after we removed all the sentimental items we wanted to keep, the LL organised a charity to take away all furniture and things as donations, and organised a skip to take care of the rest themselves. It was a huge help that they did this for us and very kind, but it was our job officially. We could have deducted any such expenses from the estate, if there was any.

Lellochip · 13/07/2023 23:47

Never even thought about my mum's security deposit... I didn't particularly feel guilty about leaving them to clear the house before but I feel even less guilty now, they never even mentioned giving that back.

They were very pushy telling me all the things I was 'obligated' to do to clear/make good the house for them, trying to get me to sign something to take responsibility for it all. I just cleared clothes and sentimental stuff, & left furniture etc for them to sort. (I did look into house clearance but it was hundreds)

The guy collecting her leased car was equally sympathetic. Insisted on me standing and watching him tot up the cost of what was owed, plus every scuff and worn tire etc, despite me telling him there's literally no money left 🙄

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