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Medical things you didn’t know?

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Emptychairdoasolo · 04/07/2023 21:09

Just watching a medical drama and wondered what happens if you die on the operating table? Do they just sew you back up without repairing anything inside?

but also had me thinking what other medical things didn’t you know until you maybe experienced them or learned?

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Feedthatgoat · 07/07/2023 15:52

StiggyZardust · 04/07/2023 22:04

I've been a nurse for 40 years. I've never seen anyone open a window when a person dies.

Where have you been nursing? in every hospital and nursing home I have worked in it is always done.

LovedFedAndNoonesDead · 07/07/2023 16:07

Daffodilsandtuplips · 07/07/2023 09:56

You can get cancer of the appendix, it’s one of the rarest cancers in the world. My sister had it, her consultant hadn’t come across it before in his thirty year career. Slow growing, It secretes jelly like stuff into the abdomen. Her scans showed two big masses where her ovaries were, she was told it was ovarian cancer but when they operated they found her ovaries were normal sized but her abdomen full of the jelly stuff. They took as much out as possible but it kept growing back. Audrey Hepburn died of it.

A colleagues daughter died in her early 30’s of appendix cancer; she had it out and they filed the histopathology report without it going across the desk of the consultant so no one picked up on it. After 9 months of backwards and forwards to hospital with all sorts of worrying symptoms Simeón decided to pull her records and take a long look and found the report tucked away. Sadly, by then, it had spread and despite treatment, she didn’t survive. The oncologist who treated her actually started the complaints procedure that she hadn’t been followed up appropriately after the original surgery.

hoteltango · 07/07/2023 18:20

Some brain surgery is carried out with the patient awake. When surgeons are trying to remove a tumour, they will want to get as much out as possible without damaging healthy tissue. So they get cues from the patient's ability to speak, see, hear, move, etc., as a guide to how far they can go.

As far as I know, the brain doesn't have pain receptors. But the scalp does, so they inject a lot of local anaesthetic before making the first incisions.

Rhaenys · 07/07/2023 18:37

This is 100% true. I’ve had 14G and 16G needles slide right in but had much smaller needles make me wince.

MarchingOn · 07/07/2023 19:39

My MIL had a brain haemorrhage aged 58. For the first day or so in hospital she was perfectly lucid then she suddenly went into a coma and we were subsequently told that she was brain dead. Her two children and my FIL were asked about whether they would consent to organ donation as she didn't carry a card. They agreed that anything that could be helpful to others could be used.

We were able to go and sit with her and have our final moments, not knowing if she'd ever know how much she was loved (although we did tell her before she the haemorrhage, of course).

Some time afterwards, my FIL received a letter from the transplant coordinator for the hospital, explaining that both corneas, some skin and her kidneys had been successfully transplanted.

A couple of years later he received another letter, via the coordinator again, from one of the recipients of a kidney.

She'd been on dialysis waiting for a match for ages. The reason she was writing was to say she'd just had a baby, something she and her partner had hoped for but never expected.

That news, whilst not lessening the pain of losing her, did such a lot to show that saying yes to that important question had made such a difference to at least one family. And yes, it did help a lot.

Theoldgreygoose · 07/07/2023 20:54

Daffodilsandtuplips · 07/07/2023 09:56

You can get cancer of the appendix, it’s one of the rarest cancers in the world. My sister had it, her consultant hadn’t come across it before in his thirty year career. Slow growing, It secretes jelly like stuff into the abdomen. Her scans showed two big masses where her ovaries were, she was told it was ovarian cancer but when they operated they found her ovaries were normal sized but her abdomen full of the jelly stuff. They took as much out as possible but it kept growing back. Audrey Hepburn died of it.

I recently saw a medical programme on TV where the patient had this - and yes, it did look like jelly.

Tygertiger · 07/07/2023 21:06

In terms of growth linked to periods, I have scoliosis which develops rapidly during puberty as the body is growing so fast. I was mortified every time I went to see the orthopaedic surgeon as every time I went (every six months) he would ask if my periods had started. He said it’s because they give an indication of growth patterns so it would be an indicator of whether my spine was still growing rapidly, but he also said that girls typically stop growing around age 18 and boys at 21.

ChocoChocoLatte · 07/07/2023 22:36

ApiratesaysYarrr · 07/07/2023 19:23

Not sure why you felt the need to tag a metastatic BC patient in this but thanks 🙄

wheresmyliveship · 07/07/2023 22:45

sashh · 05/07/2023 05:54

One of the units I used to teach was 'equality and diversity', it can bring a lot of comfort to a family if the recently deceased is treated with respect.

Just as it does to understand culture when the patient is alive, so I would teach things like not cutting a string round a Hindu patient's wrist.

Don't worry if the Vietnamese couple seem to be ignoring their baby.

There is nothing wrong with a bit of compassion when people are vulnerable.

When my mum was in the hospice I don't know how many times a priest visited her and gave her, what is commonly called 'the last rites'. I think it's superstition but she and my father got a lot of comfort from it.

@sashh what’s the context behind the Vietnamese couple and the baby?

Stomacharmeleon · 07/07/2023 22:55

@ChocoChocoLatte hope your ok. Hugs xx

villanova · 07/07/2023 23:06

@Whokilledrogerrabit& @MissingMoominMamma
you do breathe through both nostrils at the same time (unless you have an injury, like me), but you have a dominant nostril that takes in more air. Which nostril is dominant changes during the course of the day - for some people these 'cycles' are fairly quick, less than an hour, for other people they're much longer.

CharityJane · 07/07/2023 23:44

You must surely breathe through both nostrils at the same time - I bet almost everyone who’s had a cold has had that horrible feeling of waking up during the night with one nostril blocked.

ThisWormHasTurned · 07/07/2023 23:46

TomAllenWife · 04/07/2023 21:22

Oh lots

At post-mortem they put all the organs in a clinic bag in your abdomen and sew you back up

Donor transplant is brutal but amazing

Children don't have knee caps

When you die most nurses will open a window to allow your soul out

I’m a nurse and I always did this when I worked on the ward. Last year I had to go to A&E (as a patient). I could see on the board that the previous patient in the room I was allocated had RIP’d. I texted my sister and said ‘I hope they opened a window for her!’. My sister joked later ‘what if they didn’t and she’s still with you?’. I told her my luck had changed since then so if she’s with me she can stick around 😀

23careerhelp · 08/07/2023 00:58

Mashedstrawberries · 06/07/2023 19:10

My mental health nurse told me just two weeks ago that it was based on serotonin levels and that my new medication would help to prevent the serotonin loss…that’s concerning!

Don’t be concerned, the medication WILL help you it’s just the original theory on how they work is not exactly correct. This is a fairly new discovery and so many HCP still refer to serotonin levels as it’s probably what they were taught. Antidepressants were accidentally discovered as a treatment for depression, their origin purpose was to increase serotonin production so the assumption was the cause of depression was low levels of serotonin. We now know the cause is a bit more complicated but the drugs still alleviate symptoms successfully!

sashh · 08/07/2023 09:11

@sashhwhat’s the context behind the Vietnamese couple and the baby?

There is a superstition that if you coddle the child evil spirits will become jealous and steal the baby. Mum and baby stay home and don't have visitors. The baby might not get a name or new clothes.

New baby celebrations take place after a month with a banquet. And then there is often a celebration at 100 days.

Some other SE asian countries have similar customs.

stephfennell · 08/07/2023 11:38

titchy · 04/07/2023 21:39

You can't get heart cancer.

Yes you can. Cardiac sarcoma is one. Rare, but possible.

Polik · 08/07/2023 11:44

ChocoChocoLatte · 06/07/2023 18:32

That breast cancer is the only one without 'stages' You either have breast cancer or metastatic breast cancer (which means it's spread).

And there are many types / sub types of breast cancers and many types and sub types of chemo involved with treating all different types of cancers.

Even having lost many family members to this horrid disease, I was completely ignorant of the whole process.

My best friend is Stage 4 breast cancer. So, sadly, I believe this is untrue.

Hers was detected at Stsge 2 (in breast and lymph nodes nearby), was treated but then jumped to stage 4 (across many organs). She was never detected as bring stage 1 or 3.

NerdyIsMyMiddleName · 08/07/2023 12:13

RunningChaos · 04/07/2023 23:24

That Amelia is the complete absence of one or more limbs, not a modern girls name.

Other brilliant words I've picked up -

'Malena' - sounds lovely, means blood in stools.

'Candida' - most people have probably heard of this, but it's a genus of yeast that causes thrush.

Conversely 'Cyesis' sounds like a terrible disease, means they're pregnant.

Emotionalsupportviper · 08/07/2023 14:51

wheresmyliveship · 07/07/2023 22:45

@sashh what’s the context behind the Vietnamese couple and the baby?

In some cultures it is considered unlucky to be too proud of your infant because it can attract bad luck/ jealousy from the gods, so publicly at least parents don't make too much fuss of the child.

Possibly it's a traditional explanation for distressing infant conditions eg SIDS (I'm guessing here)

ChocoChocoLatte · 08/07/2023 15:14

Polik · 08/07/2023 11:44

My best friend is Stage 4 breast cancer. So, sadly, I believe this is untrue.

Hers was detected at Stsge 2 (in breast and lymph nodes nearby), was treated but then jumped to stage 4 (across many organs). She was never detected as bring stage 1 or 3.

I was diagnosed de novo Metastatic TNBC and was informed that breast cancer is the only one that doesn't use 'stages' within its descriptions.

Have obviously been delighted in people telling me that information is true on this thread.

I will however continue to put trust and faith in my excellent medical team who have kept me alive, against all odds, thus far.

I hope your friend only has the very best of care and support around her.

Greybeardy · 08/07/2023 16:25

Just a thought, but I wonder if the confusion about breast cancer staging comes from the fact that metastatic (stage 4) BC doesn't have an substages? So strictly I guess the cancer is either metastatic or not metastatic, but it is still a stage 4 cancer if it is metastatic. The de novo part of the definition refers to the fact that the cancer has presented at stage 4 rather than at stage 2 for example and then progressed. IIRC, stage 0 cancer also has no subdivisions, but stages 1,2 and 3 can all be further divided into I A&B; II A&B; III A,B&C.

Technically I think this makes everyone who's commented right.

FlipFlop1987 · 12/07/2023 09:15

I ended up high risk once I arrived on the labour ward so needed induction, antibiotics and potentially a transfusion. Didn’t get a choice on the canula really! This time round I’m high risk from the start so it will same again unfortunately 🙁

agent765 · 14/07/2023 20:35

Mercury2702 · 05/07/2023 10:47

I’m a nurse (qualified under a year) and we’ve always opened the window after death.

We speak to patients as we’re doing everything after death and one of my colleagues always says something that is very true. ‘None of us come into this world alone, so none of us should go out of this world alone’ so even if we’re busy when we know someone is very close to death we will always try and sit in the room with them holding their hand for a bit.

also genuinely believe people won’t let go when surrounded by loved ones. Sometimes they hold on and hold on and you wonder how they’re still here days on and the moment their relative pops out the room for the loo or leaves they go.

the hardest ones I see are the ones with no next of kin, always makes me feel sad that no one is aware, I always give everyone’s hand a hold after finishing last offices and say rest well, or sleep tight before leaving the room

I hope I'm one of your patients when I die.

Keykat · 14/07/2023 22:04

Right I have had enough of windows opening now, after 15 pages!

I had a procedure recently called Left Atrial Appendage Occlusion (try saying that after a few pints!), it is a relatively new thing, some years anyway. It means I don't have to take blood thinning medication anymore. I have Atrial Fibrillation (heart rhythm issue), and it can cause stroke if a clot breaks off. The clot usually forms in the Left Atrium, so now that it is closed off, my stroke risk is the same as someone without Afib. Amazing stuff. I was very lucky to be a candidate for it. I am a bleeder, and had gastric bleed so the risk of bleeding was high if I had to take thinners. I saw a recording of the op, one that the surgeon had in his arsenal for the students. Hope it wasn't me! It is a Watchman device.

I never knew any of this, i.e. strokes, arrythmia, left atrium, Watchman etc.