Do you know a woman like this?

[JerseyRoyalMe]

Confident, well groomed, stylish, treats herself, never in a hurry, attractive to men, professionally successful, happily married, just generally has got it all under control and evidently loves herself in a good way, prioritising own needs without guilt or showing off. She is effortless and just mesmerising.

One day I will grow up to be like her.

[SparklingLime]

Sounds nauseating.

[Anoushkaka]

No

[InTheGardenShed]

Mesmerising??

[WarmButteryCrumpets]

I'm not sure anyone, male or female, is both "professionally successful" AND "never in a hurry"

Unless they're an artist or a pig farmer or something

[Malarandras]

Is this woman Barbie?

[overthehillswegoo]

Me

[WonderfulUsername]

I'm not sure they're 'mesmerising' but yes, I work with two women who would fall into this category.

One of them's really funny too.

Good for them I say but you just do you. There's no point in wishing you were someone you're not. It's a waste of energy.

[nameschangg]

Nope, no one that ticks all those boxes. Sounds like a book character tbh.

[stbrandonsboat]

Sounds like one of my cats. Apart from she's not married.

[nameschangg]

I don't think i've ever been mesmerised by anyone

[Kleptronic]

'Well groomed' and 'effortless' - that circle doesn't square.

[Plunkplink]

It’s either me or the cat, and actually I think she wins, she never misses a chance to groom herself and is confident in her place as head of the household and her career as a pest controller has really taken off recently. I think she may be divorced though as she spent a while in looking after a couple of kittens before she moved in to supervise us.

[BananaSpanner]

I know someone like this. Add to it marathon runner and amazing home and social life. She’s a nice person though to be fair and has suffered tragedy in her past and one of her children is in poor health so she deserves good things.

[BarryK3nt]

Sounds like me tbf

[WonkyPicture]

Everyone is know like this is unmarried.

[WalkingAcrossAFord]

Only in novels @JerseyRoyalMe

[determinedtomakethiswork]

Everyone I know like this is completely self-absorbed. And the reason they are never in a hurry is because they do fuck all.

[WandaWonder]

Is there people actually like this or do people just look at people and assume this?

[cassiatwenty]

Gemma Collins!

[continentallentil]

I think you may be setting yourself up for a fall there, although you could try cultivating it as a professional facade

[LuckyPeonies]

Yes, in novels. But not in real life, though some put up a convincing facade which eventually crumbles.

[cassiatwenty]

Soon to marry an Israeli doctor

[RicherThanYews]

I know someone who is the polar opposite of that woman. It's me.

[blueshoes]

Holly Willoughby?

[riotlady]

I don’t think I know anyone I’d describe as “mesmerising”