Sorry about the rant incoming...
I have read a lot of threads on here today and am feeling increasingly despairing.
IABU, I know, but I am angry.
I am angry because all of this is about ordinary people's lives. I have seen people on threads about strikes calling strikers greedy and entitled, people telling others they are entitled for expecting a decent standard of living. Entitled to want the odd luxury or a roof over their head that suits their family (not done up to a high standard or with several spare rooms - just big enough and in a liveable condition). People telling those struggling with bills to cut back to eating gruel and to use Jack Monroe style tips to shave 20p off the cost of soap (or whatever). That to do any more is 'entitled'. Telling people that they should downsize their houses, that they aren't 'entitled' to their own home.
You know what? I think we are 'entitled' to live a better life than that.
We live in a relatively wealthy country. We trust our Government to do what's right and support us.
They haven't. They aren't.
You can do everything 'right'. Work hard at school, do well, get an excellent education, degrees or a good, skilled trade, be frugal, save up, buy the smallest house you can, live within your means...
And then something happens totally outside your control (Brexit, Energy, War, Pandemic) and the Government decides that the solution is to inflict pain, cut spending, freeze pay, kick off a recession and take it out on everyone below the wealthiest 20%
It's not the wealthy reducing their lives to 4 walls, no holidays, no treats and making do and mending. They are protected from nearly all of the effects of this, but everyone seems happy to accept that.
It's the poorest and the next rung up, plus the professionals who had every expectation of doing all of the 'right' things and getting a decent standard of life as a result.
And now we are arguing among ourselves about who deserves what help and who deserves what level of pain and who is the most 'entitled'.
It's Victorian thinking. Anyone struggling must be feckless and have brought it on themselves. No one below the upper middle class is entitled to decent housing and enough to eat? Is that what we are aiming for?
It's bullshit - and there MUST be a better way. Some economist somewhere must be able to suggest something. We have just all rolled over and accepted that our economy works this way and this pain is necessary. Why? Because the Government tells us so? Because the banks tell us so? Because it always has in the past?
I don't know what the solution is, but I suggest that it shouldn't be hard working people arguing among themselves about who has it worse and who is being 'entitled'. It helps no one. We can't be in each other's shoes and everyone has their own story.
This is crap for everyone - and in 2023 in this country - it really shouldn't be like this.
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Rant over